Sexual punishment?

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I had a fight with my boyfriend and, it took me a lot of time to convince him, I promised him that, I'd do whatever he wanted and he said that he would sexually punish me. I haven't been sexually punished before, so I don't know what to do. I said okay, and he said that he'd do it tonight. I'm really freaked out, so.. Can you tell me what would YOU do, (like, you know.. What kind of sexual punishment.) Please? So. That I get an idea of what I'm gonna go through tonight? Thanks.

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Frost_Byt3 Guru
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I hope you and your bf had a serious talk about boundaries and established a "safe word". If you haven't already you need to do so before you guys engage in this sexual activity. It can become dangerous and you don't want either of you to get hurt, so establish a safe word like "pineapple". Say it if you want him to stop, and make sure that he understands this.
As for what to expect: you should probably be prepared for some spanking (wether it be with his hands or some kind of object), as well as constraint (tying up) or mild choking of some kind, he also may use toys, and there may be anal sex (expect it to be extremely rough), but if he has shocking toys, i would be surprised because those are hard to come by. Just pray that he doesn't have any shocking toys. If you don't know what they are, they are basically a giant dildo that tases your anus or vagine while its inside of you.
So um... no pressure
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- Asker
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  Omfg. He's here. In my washroom 'freshening up' and he left a bag outside and. And... He.. He has a spank-er some belts and.. Those. Those.. Those toys. Shocking toys. Shit. Do they hurt a lot? What will happen? Omfg help
- Frost_Byt3
  +1 y
  OMG he has schovking toys? Girl they are going to hurt like hell! Have you ever been shocked by a toaster? Multiply that shock by ten and imagine feeling it on the inside of your vagina. And as for the belts, that's just cruel if you ask me. Hands can be fun, but belts are just going to hurt. Expect your ass to 50 shades of purple by the end of this.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Im dead. Im goddamn fucking dead
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- Asker
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  he's out of the washorm
- Frost_Byt3
  +1 y
  Well i would advise you that you tell him that you don't want to follow through with this anymore. If he doesn't listen to you, he can be charged with rape.
- Frost_Byt3
  +1 y
  Well good luck. Let me know how it goes :/
- Asker
  +1 y
  He got engaged in a phone call
- Asker
  +1 y
  Shit heshere
- Frost_Byt3
  +1 y
  Well call it off if it scared you that much. If he doesn't listen to you, it is rape.
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  @frost_byt3, do you still think she is alive.
- Asker
  +1 y
  I hate him. I hate him. I fucking hate him.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Oh my god. I hate him. I hate him so fucking much.
- Asker
  +1 y
  He.. he, he.. Used every single thing he brought. Every single thing.
- Asker
  +1 y
  I'm dying. The pain won't go.
- Frost_Byt3
  +1 y
  @Nil1hil she messages me about 45 min ago, i hope she is still alive because i was offline at the time. I think he raped her unless she let him do it.
- Frost_Byt3
  +1 y
  @Nik1hil *
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  He raped her, she was not mentally ready or wanted it. But for sake of his happiness and thinking that she deserves that punishment, she decided to take it.
- Frost_Byt3
  +1 y
  Hmm that's messed up. I think she shouldve done something earlier. She hasn't messaged me back so either she is in the hospital or something or she just isn't online @Nik1hil
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  I do not like Islamic much but when it comes to Khalifa, I like the way they punish, someone used forced sexual power over other, chop his dick off. And such guys deserve it. If one of those asshole become dickless other asshole will improve. And sex toys re for old +40 years age people who cannot get enough pleasure. Not for 19yrs girl. I am 18yrs tough guy still I can'I stand taser, I hope she gets fine soon.
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  I think she is over hospital, she took kittykatg advice given below. Once she feels well she will come to talk for sure. Just hope she does not take any wrong step man. Told her to not to let him tie her and if felt unsafe to break his balls. But she missed the opportunity.
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  This girl messaged me half hr ago. She said she was going to committee.
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  Suicide
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  She committed suicide bro.
- Frost_Byt3
  +1 y
  @Nik1hil ifk if she actually committed suicide, she messaged me to though.
- Frost_Byt3
  +1 y
  You don't think this is some kind of prank do you?
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  You are thinking it as prank, she was 19 had no idea what sex toys and taser toys are when she faced it could not stand them.
- Frost_Byt3
  +1 y
  I'm not assuming its a prank, i was just a bot suspicious because I've never been in this situation before and i find it odd that she is reaching out to random people on the internet over such a serious situation @Nik1hil
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  Give me your kik ID I got a Screenshot of her last words. Or message me my kik ID is nik pat
- Frost_Byt3
  +1 y
  @Nik1hil your phone is off/disconnected
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  I assume she was a ex-member who returned to get some advice. I have read this name earlier I assume or seen her face earlier on this site.
- Frost_Byt3
  +1 y
  Hmmmm
- Asker
  +1 y
  I didn't get any medical help. I can't tell anyone about this. I can't even commit suicide, because suppose if I do and (God forbid) someone saves me, what am I gonna tell my parents? What am I gonna tell to the world? What about all the bruises, scratches, and wounds on my body? What am I gonna do with my life. What.
Man_Over_Game Xper 6
+1 y
Hmmm, maybe tie you up to the bed or bind your legs/arms together as he slowly messes with you.

Expect a blindfold, ask to be gentle with the spanking.
Good luck, and either enjoy yourself or tell your bf that it isn't working for you.
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- Man_Over_Game
  +1 y
  But if you do like something, don't be afraid to let him know. Half the reason he's doing some of this stuff is the hope that you like it as much as he does.
- Asker
  +1 y
  I don't know im scared.
- Man_Over_Game
  +1 y
  He's not really wanting to hurt you, hejust wanted an exuse to try it with you. Tell him to be gentle, that you're kinda terrified about this kind of stuff, but I would suggest you both give it at least one try. Maybe you can suggest you start slow, with just a blindfold or just the bindings.

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kittykatg Yoda
+1 y
I'd be really fucking careful if I were you two because that's getting dangerously close to rape territory. Please make sure there is a safe word and both listen to it, and that you both only go as far as the other one is comfortable. Other than that, have fun and be safe.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Omfg. Shit
- kittykatg
  +1 y
  It sounds like you're really scared. If you does rape you: DO NOT SHOWER, put on the same clothes and go to the hospital to get a rape kit done. we are all here to help you in anyway you can.
- Nik1hil
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  Thanks for a perfect advice
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- Nik1hil
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  thanks for the last try @kittykatg. Just wished we put a bit more effort she might have not committed suicide.
- kittykatg
  +1 y
  @Nik1hil are you serious? Please tell me that this is a sick joke and nothing bad actually happened to her. I'm literally crying.
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  No sure What happened, but she messaged me
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  Well other guy is saying it was was a prank, that girl messaged her later just going to make sure if it was prank k or not.
- Asker
  +1 y
  I wish, I had listened to your advice.
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  Well she was alive and no idea if it's prank or real but she's safe now alive in surgery and her elder sister is angry at me,
GirlScoutsRevenge Yoda
+1 y
I smell total fucking bullshit.

Seriously fucked up thing to do.
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UsualSuspect Xper 4
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Dont tell me. he watched 50 shades. of grey alredy?
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I'm sca- he's here!
- KidInk2
  +1 y
  You're making him out to be the devil--he's your boyfriend. Besides, is sex really the best way to handle a fight?
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  Great looks like the 50 shades of grey gave that guy such a teaching him, he raped her and she messaged me last before committing suicide. GREAT JOB 50 SHADES OF GREY. YOU BECAUSE REASONS OF DATE OF ANTHER GIRL
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- Nik1hil
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  Reason of death of another girl
- GirlScoutsRevenge
  +1 y
  @Nik1hil how do you know she's committed suicide?
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  Oh my god. ... I just wanna say goodbye, cause I don't wanna live anymore. Thank you for caring. - her last words try messaging her no response. Well not 100%sure of it, but it's my first time I faced it.
thechoosy Xper 2
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it means a very very rough sex... without taking care of your feelings/pain... deep throats , rough forceful anal/vaginal... inserting dick in your holes just in one go forcefully...
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I think he's planing something more than that. I saw a bunch of belts and a... Thing with which you spank. Is that called a spanker? Whatever. I'm just really scared.
- thechoosy
  +1 y
  OMG... maybe... maybe... is he well hung?
- Asker
  +1 y
  I'm really freaking out. I love him like hell, or else I would've just left him. But, I can't!
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- Asker
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  Its 8:30 here.. He'll be here anytime!
- thechoosy
  +1 y
  maybe knee his balls hard if you feel it as threatning
Nik1hil Master
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Be ready for BDSM
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Omfg
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  Don't worry it's won't be that bad today you will learn a new chapter of dark pleasure. It's like a fear once you face it it ends and then you enjoy doing it.
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  If you feel unsafe don't let him tie you. Best thing don't let him tie you today, say you will play bad with him. If he does not ties you. If he still forces to tie you then do not hesitate from kicked no his balls and getting out of there.
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- Nik1hil
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  Do not hesitate from kicking his balls and getting the hell out of there.
- Asker
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  What.. What are 'shocking toys'?
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  If he forces you and you let him tie you then even if he rapes you badly, cops cannot easily file against him, girl the best is keep a code for him to stop and in BDSM is your partner does not stop after you shout or yell the code at him, then it's rape.
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  They are little tazers which stimulate sexual pleasure, and trust me you are in love with wrong man, he is just taking an advantage that you did a mistake. Or I think he has wrong concept in his mind results of stupid '50shades of grey'.
- Nik1hil
  +1 y
  Do you like hard sex, or angry sex. If yes then this BDSM is your thing. If you are a soft cutie pie, princess from fairyland or Disney land then best you leave the place right now.
Cherryst Xper 3
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So how it was eventually? Did you enjoyed it?
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- Asker
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  Three words: he's in jail.
singlebee Guru
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He is gonna fu** you like you are a p*rnstar ... very hard... or maybe bondage or something...
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- Asker
  +1 y
  omg! I'm really scared, its like 8:30 here. He'd be here, any minute.
- singlebee
  +1 y
  Hahahaha don't be scared you may enjoy it and tonight you may achieve a heavy orgasm... :) but it can be painful for you if he tries anal with you...
- Asker
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  Hopefully
jmmmfi Yoda
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yeah I don't know about all that
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the_love Xper 2
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you will be fucked so hard :D
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