Sometimes I feel like I'm kinda a liability to my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

He never said he felt like that or anything but I do sometimes wonder.
Because he does a lot of things, that if I were him, would think were annoying. And I'm wondering if he feels the same?

Classic example would us going out. I don't usually wear heels but the other night I did and it was hard to walk in them, but he walked slow with me, helped me with stairs and even carried me home the last part. Also I hardly ever bring a jacket so I don't have to pay for coats, so he gives me his, when I'm cold
I have long hair and in general he spends a lot of time waiting for me to manage it so we can leave the house

Carrying heave things. He basically lifts all my heave stuff. We went on vacation recently and not could I get my luggage into the things over the seats on my own.

My diet. I eat vegan (and generally healthy) and I do the cooking, which means he eats vegan most of the time

A while back, I was robbed and I had trouble sleeping afterwards, so he stayed with me, even though it meant getting up earlier for work for him

Just things like that...

[madhatters4]

I doubt you are as much of a burden as you think. you could perhaps take steps to become a bit less dependent on him (such as practicing walking in heels) but the things you mentioned are things that most guys (myself included) have no problem helping a woman out with

[Asker]

well I agree the heels thing was kinda a bad call. And I've been single a long time before him. I do get along by myself fine.
It's just when he IS there, he helps me quite a bit

[madhatters4]

and I'm sure he enjoys helping you

[Anonymous]

Most women require this type of support from men. You know -because women are equal. most men don't mind too much if she is an amazing woman. But as soon as she turns bitch or he wakes up and realized he's had enough, that's it for you.

[Prof_Don]

Trust me... these things probably don't bother him much, if at all. You're thinking too much. :)

[Anonymous]

I think that's generally the case in relationships. The guy generally does a lot and gets little in return