Guys, do you care about a girl's weight?

[Anonymous]

Do guys care about how much a girl weighs? (Be honest) if so, how much is too much? And why?

[melandbel92]

Listen if the guy is worried about weight, unless he's into fitness and a health freak then he is just a ego statistical ass. All men have different tastes and preferences. There isn't such a thing as too big to me but I will admit there Is a too small. If I can see ribs and you look like you are going to blow away I'm going to try and force feed you a couple cheeseburgers. All women are beautiful in their own way same as men. I've started to gain weight. I weigh 140 which is. 20 pounds over what I've ever weighed and honestly I like it. Lol my boobs and my but have gotten bigger to and they tend to be good assets lmao

[melandbel92]

Except for health wise. There is a too big health wise. But if you are healthy then you are perfect.

[Ninja97]

I don't get why people refer to "larger girls" as fat, obese and disgusting" when we are humans too, and also when they say that like "bigger girls" it's called a fetish. Hello? We aren't some horse or donkey that you can rent to curb your sexual desires and then throw us back into the cage the next day. WTF. We are people, some of us are actually sick but people judge us way too quickly , by calling us fat slobs, or disgusting. I do not condone those whom weigh 400+ kg's from unhealthy lifestyles. I'm just saying, stop treating us differently. It's seriously not okay!

[Asker]

PREACH IT GIRL! 🙌👌

[Ninja97]

Thank you <3 just for the record, I don't weigh 400kgs or so. I'm just sick of people dissing others. Including my family and especially my mom who's very sick

[BangBadBxtches]

Them double standards tho.

[sjoes006]

Speaking as someone who has varied in size to a young person, I think long-term it is more important for you to decide this is the size I'm comfortable with and find a way to maintain it.

Once you find the size that fits you everything else will fall into place because you will have confidence in your person as a whole. Confident well centered people have a glow and can command a room. The key which is easier to learn young is finding that comfortable weight and portion control/ exercise (that you enjoy) to maintain.

[Anywayysss]

I like it when girls have some meat on them. girls that are too skinny are gross in my opinion. however there are all different types of bodies out there ranging from skinny but not fit, or fit but not skinny. there's those who are fat and those who are really thin and everyone has their own opinion on the topic but it basically comes down to what that individual is attracted to, same reason why you're not attracted to certain races, its what you like. be happy with what you have and if you dont like it then try doing your best to change it, but thats not always possible.

[gray_sailor]

I met, fell in love with and married my wife 9 years ago. At the time she was a big beautiful woman.

Since then, by her own decision, and with my support she has lost 175lbs. I was sexually attracted to her then and I still am.

She is my girlfriend, my wife and my lover. I love her more and more every day.

[Asker]

This is so cute... do you think back when she was heavier she was a little insecure and nervous of whether you thought she was beautiful or not?

[gray_sailor]

My wife @GraySailorsBride has been a confident and cheerful woman since the day we first met.
She and I are an eHarmony couple. We are each on our second marriage.

[gray_sailor]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Random_chick_2384]

Awe this made me cry from sweetness😭

[geekylady]

Awwwwwww

[oldanddecrepid]

Nicely said... its the woman, not the weight that you fall in love with :)

[_lovii_]

*Patiently waiting for a guy like you to step in my life*

[GraySailorsBride]

There are plenty of good guys out there! Always always fall for the guy that makes you laugh, the guy with the shy smile and a twinkle in his eyes. The smart guy. The guy who is kind. Girls, shy smart teenagers grow up to be thoughtful, loving, kind handsome adults. Don't overlook a potential partner because you never gave the geeky awkward teenage boy a chance. They grow up. And you get a man like @gray_sailor. He's the real deal, truly loves me unconditionally, is smart and handsome. He's kind and a great husband and father! I love that man so much!!

[E-Nigma]

I see being overweight as a sign of a lack of self control. As for how much is too much? I don't know, anything over 31%?

[BarbieDollT]

I love this opinion! How sweet :D

[Mekkalyn]

@BarbieDollT Oh this story makes me happy and gives me hope that there are people that can see beneath the weight. Weight fluctuates! The personality doesn't (well, not radically).

[apple24]

@Mekkalyn WELL I HOPE ITS TRUE! *apple crys again and eats more ice cream!

[gray_sailor]

@apple24

What kind of ice cream?

[apple24]

@gray_sailor ben and jerry ice cream milk and cookies! Its cus my LDR didn't work out~ I am mourning my grief... hmm but I feel better on gag.

[Insomniac11]

I like curvy girls.
Here's how I judge if you're too skinny:
When I hug you, if my hands touch the opposite shoulders, you're too skinny. It's like hugging paper. It's awkward, and in no way fulfilling.
Here's how I judge if you're too big:
If I hug you and my hands can't touch, you're too big.
That's a personal preference. What really matters to me is personality. We can work on outer appearance later.
Basically my mentality is that if I work hard to make myself proper for you, you should do the same for me.
You should have expectations for me, because I will have expectations for you.

[NexAngelus]

every girl is different. weight number can be misleading. bone structure and height alone change weight a lot. some girls have more "meat" in "important" areas ;). i like to see height/weight as i know roughly if the girl is gunna be skinny or fat or what not. but once u see and know the person i would worry more about looks as far as attractiveness and bmi or hips for health reasons. besides going to the doctors i never weigh myself. its stupid. ur weight can change so much from water and what u just ate to when u last took a dump... im serious.

[BioDiezel]

Weight, as a number on a scale means absolutely nothing. Human beings are all different, and each person has a healthy weight range and body composition. Rather than worrying about those numbers, it is way more important to focus on keeping your own body and confidence healthy. Maintaining a healthy weight reduces the risk of numerous diseases and conditions. it takes great effort and dedication to maintain the necessary healthy lifestyle, but it's absolutely worth it. Knowing the work you put in to keep your body in shape should give you confidence in yourself, and nothing is attractive like a confident lady. Furthermore, seeing a healthy body is associated with a healthy personality and attitude. Being in shape attracts partners not just because of a healthy good looking body, but also because of the attractive personalities that usually go along with them.

[Dannieee]

In an ideal world we would all simply look on personality and not the outward appearance but back up and realize that we are all human.. You know? We are gonna be attracted to different types of people, simply because we have preferences and sex drives, whether or not you're a healthy weight. I am a "stick" and I wish so much that I had curves, but then for some reason, it bothers me when I read the guys' comments that say "sticks" are not attractive. But THEN I realize that that is THEIR preference, and they can't help it. Like, I don't like super buff dudes or heavier dudes because that is my preference.

[Kountry_King]

I mean I'm the type of guy that if I like then I like she could be fit, skinny , chubby , thick or whatever. My last gf was chubby when I first met her and was beautiful to me then and she got bigger and thought it'd be a problem for me or I would be embarrassed she was big but I didn't care I still loved her and saw her as the day we went met. Now if a woman gets heavy to the point where its a health concern and she doesn't want to even come down a bit I'll just leave because I don't want to stick around and see the negative effects that come with that

[MichelleJustAsking]

I don't think guys care about weight as much as they care about lifestyle.

If a guy or girl is overweight because they eat poorly and never take the time to exercise, it's a sign of laziness and lack of self respect and someone who is hiding behind excuses instead of finding solutions. Those qualities are NOT attractive regardless of your size/weight.

BUT... if you are taking care of yourself and demonstrate that your health and body are valuable, then a guy isn't going to care much about the weight.

[BangBadBxtches]

You'd be wrong to think that, there's the "men" on this website, then there's men in real life and this site is not a microcosm of real life.

[Klaatu51]

sure i do... and why "much" and not "less"? i'm into chubbier girls! :-P

[Asker]

Do you have a fetish or just like big girls?

[Klaatu51]

both ;-)

[sobg71124]

I also prefer them a little "chubby" Not really fat, but "thick" or "curvy" or "voluptuous". Size 10-14 is pretty nice! Occasionally, depending on her shape and how attracted I am to her, I find myself attracted to girls a little above or below that size. But skinny girls do absolutely nothing to attract or turn me on.

[CHARismatic110]

Well it's tricky because everyone wears their weight differently. 2 girls that are the same weight could look totally different based on other factors. I feel like as long as she's healthy, wears her weight well and carries herself properly, actual weight shouldn't really matter. But that's just my opinion.

[Popcorncake]

I'm kind of picky when it comes to this, but apparently what you girls concider overweight is more than i would think it is personally. If it is like a layer around you and if you got a stomach that isn't bulging out but has some fat on it it's fine. Still to 80% of guys a pretty face is more important than any other body feature. This doesn't mean that a pretty face is all that is required at any time but it means that improving the rest of your body so that you could basically be a model is doable, but like many things hard work and effort is required for success but it always pays off.

[ccp16]

I just enjoy dating someone who is more or less on my level, other wise I feel weird. Like a girl can be too fit for me to really enjoy, but a girl can weight too much as well. I like just normal perhaps slightly above weight girls as that is what I consider myself.

[CreepyOldMan]

Yeah, I really do. I find obese women intolerable. It's something more visceral than just not being interested. It speaks volumes to me about their personality.

100,000,000 people don't all have thyroid problems. So that excuse doesn't work.

I am really frustrated and angry about just how fat American women are getting. It is a disgrace and it pisses me off, because there is no excuse. It seriously pisses me off when that I have to look at so many fat pigs every day.

[Ninja97]

Thyroid isn't the only "medical cause" there's medication that makes you pick up weight too. Stop judging, it's not cool.

[CreepyOldMan]

You asked. I answered. And it's not changing any time soon.

[freaky94]

Pretty sure American men are getting fatter too...

[CreepyOldMan]

I'm pretty sure you're right. Damn fatter in fact.

[Words_and_Wisdom]

It's not really how much she weighs, but HOW she carries it. Some women carry 200 lbs better than others.

[Ninjaorbes]

True datt

[Asker]

well what's an example of a woman who carries 200 better then another woman who is 200... any famous people or some type of reference?

[Mesonfielde]

There is a minimum and maximum threshold for weight, below or above which the girl is just usually not physically attractive at all. I like girls with a BMI of around 22, so don't think you have to be stick thin. I even like a little extra tummy. Not too much, but a bit.

Otherwise, attraction is mostly in the face, voice, behavior and mannerisms, plus overall personality including likes and dislikes.

[posted]

Absofuckinglutely.
A huge factor in this question is..
You'll have a 6956894858 pound woman saying she's 'chubby'
while guys in the comment may say a girl with like 5-10 somewhat extraish pounds is chubby.

No guys I know date girls who aren't close to average, sure some girls who have a few extra pounds can be really sexy, some just workout even and get bigger legs/butts. But in general I would go skinny over overweight. I'm pretty fit so a girl I'm dating should be average at least.

[Blue_riBBon]

love wouldn't give choices. it just happens.
apart from the quote "love at first sight" is considered when someone look beautiful but how do you know it's personality or nature without getting to know them?

I believe you like the girl/guy if you're totally compatible with his/her nature

[σαςReverie]

The best guys you can find don't care about the numbers. They just care that she's confident, comfortable in her own skin, and works with what she has! : )

[pool4]

I doubt any decent guy would be any interested in an unhealthy woman who feels comfortable and confident being unhealthy unless they're themselves unhealthy physically or/and mentally. No offense meant, some fat girls/skeleton girls are good persons but once they are proud of it you can see that there's a problem.

[σαςReverie]

@pool4 meh you speak for yourself. You don't have any true place or right to claim that's how all or even most men feel. That's just how you feel.

[pool4]

I am not speaking for myself, I am talking from an objective analyze. Why would you pick someone who's proud to be unhealthy? That person has mental issue on an objectival point of view. That's just how it is... I would agree if the guy would be looking for someone who's nice, has extra weight but isn't proud of it but once you start to be proud of it there's something wrong and even psys say so.

[σαςReverie]

@pool4 hate to break it to you hon but your "objective analyze" doesn't have in depth knowledge of the personalities of men all around the world. So while you are oh so proud of your "objective analyze", you don't speak for anyone but you. Your assumption and speculations don't make your "objective analyze" hardcore fact and that's something you need to accept instead of running your mouth on my post, trying to shove your views in my face.
You are not going to sit here, self-invited to my post, and talk my ear off until I compromise my view to match yours.

[BangBadBxtches]

Keep living in delusional land.

[pool4]

Your logic is similar to "Why would any decent guys like killers? They are so confident, comfortable in their skin and work with what they have. If you dislike them it's obviously your opinion, you dont speak for everyone out there". While I would agree as some crazy people like killers I think you can pretty much understand what's going on here... I am not trying to put my views on you but to put some logic in your head, unhealthy girls that are proud of being unhealthy have issues, that much is a fact.

[σαςReverie]

@BangBadBxtches keep doing females like me a favor by being bold about how huge of a pig you are.

[σαςReverie]

@pool4 you're "trying to put some logic into my head"? Stop bullshittibf yourself: you are trying (and failing) to impose your opinion on me by being pushy and yapping away, repeating yourself. I am not interested in your mouth nor the arrogant, argumentative in your face presence. GAG users like you are a pain in the ass because you assume you know every damn thing then bitch at people who don't even slightly agree with you.
Pretty sure women aren't "proud of being unhealthy" 😒 you just think you know everything

[σαςReverie]

@pool4 I don't know if you're one of those people who think the purpose of GAG is to "debate" or bicker at others until they agree with you or give you the last word but you're not entitled to invite yourself into ither's space and yap away, bitching at them because they don't feel how you feel. I'm not putting up with it. I don't have to prove or argue my point against you nor do I have to listen to you repeat the same bullshit over and over in different words.

[ImKervin]

Honestly. I have limits to when a girl is simply to fat. I've dated chubby looking girls who were so unfit but that didn't matter to me. But when you're very big to the point where I cannot lock my fingers around you when I want to hug you then its a problem.

[sobg71124]

I prefer them a little "chubby" Not really fat, but "thick" or "curvy" or "voluptuous". Size 10-14 is pretty nice! Occasionally, depending on her shape and how attracted I am to her, I find myself attracted to girls a little above or below that size. But skinny girls do absolutely nothing to attract or turn me on. No thanks!

[DaveyYourFavey]

I do care.

Curvy girls (not fat or chubby) are my number one favorite, with fit girls coming second.

What I really don't like though, is when girls are insecure about their weight or when they are dieting to meet the media's perception of beauty, which in my own personal opinion, is not beautiful at all.

[gonyr]

There can be girls who are chubbier that are way hotter than skinnier girls. Wi that said, there's a limit to how far it goes, for me at least. But whatever. Everyone is into different things. There are plenty of people who are in the 'bigger the better' type. I don't judge