First of all i want to tell you that it is surely not a reason to breakup, you have not gone shorter at an instant you are with the same height since you have met her, it is obvious she don't need you anymore and is trying to get rid of you by giving silly reasons, and why are you even thinking about getting her back? Do you think it's gonna work? A girl who can breakup with you giving you a silly reason think about her sincerity towards relation, is it really worth trying then? She left your mind with all the questions, if you really want her back then it will be more dumb thing to hear, dude forced relation never works you can try 1000 times but you won't succeed even a single time, if she left you then it has to be that way, better stay away from her you will be happy, it's better to be alone than to be in a bad relation, i really hate when this happens and you know why girls doesn't come to the point directly and talk about problems because they want actually want the solution they don't want it to get sorted out, they just want freedom from you, i remember this happened with me once i sold my stuff to buy a bday gift for her when she discovered that she came to me and said it's all over because she didn't liked the ring but you know she was the one who wanted that ring, i was like wtfff? so don't try to get what was never your's, time will make her realize her mistake.
Sounds like girls me, there always so picky and they seem to get what they want since their girls. Guys make it too easy on em
But don't worry, it's because your under 18. As soon as you hit late 20's the power shifts to men easily and it never comes back to women. Women only have it when your a teen and young adult
Willing to bet money it's not your height. I mean, you've probably been that height or shorter since she's known you.
Generally, if a woman says you're not a man, she's referring to your maturity level. I said it to my ex - I want a man not a boy.
I wanted someone who would support me, come to my aid when I needed it, wanted to move out of his parents and get a job. I didn't want someone who was a spoilt kid going out and playing band time while dossing his life away in a useless weekend job.
It may be something you don't even consider a problem. Tell me a bit about you - interests/jobs/hobbies/friends/amount of time spent with her/gaming/etc etc.
How tall is a "man" in her eyes? She is not a "woman" then if she is 5ft 2. Of course she is but if you can't a man at that height (which is a really good height for a man), then she can't be a woman at her height. Tell her she needs to be at least 5ft 6 to be considered a woman and not a child at her height !
It's complete and total rubbish and if that's the best she can come up with after 2 years of dating, then be relieved that the moron has exited your life due to height and not because you are a perv, a creep, nasty, cruel, evil, bad at sex, tight with money, an uneducated, idiotic, ridiculous fool of a man.
Fancy a date? Just joking ;)
That's the dumbest thing ever. She probably was just trying to find an excuse because she doesn't love you anymore... 5'10 is not even short.
2 years inside this relationship and she leaves you for such a shallow reason? No, you shouldn't get her back of course, you should move on.
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Lol Wow that's a new break up line. That's seriously the dumbest thing I've read in a while. Seems like she just wanted to break up with you and needed to find something to use as an excuse, a dumb one, but an excuse nonetheless. I wouldn't try to win here back, she talks about wanting a "real man" but she obviously lacks the maturity to have one lol.
It's not the height. She just said that because she was angry. People tend to notice imperfections more if the relationship is bad. It was probably some other problem and brings you down a little more to make you insecure. If it really was the height, she wouldn't have dated you in the first place.
Lmfao! that is one of the dumbest reasons I've ever seen someone break up with a person! Such a terrible excuse, but don't be upset she just used a weak ass excuse LOL! Get a girl who will treat you right and won't come up with stupid reasons to break up with you. Sorry this happened// :/
I think there has to be much more to the story because that's one of the most stupidest reason I've ever heard of someone breaking up after 2 years. I'm assuming she wanted to break up for a while and this has planned.
Honestly, that's a good height for a man. If anything, she is short for a woman since the average woman is 5'4 (I'm 5'7).
This sounds so made up. If she left you for your height she wouldn't have wasted 2 years of her life with you. If she really said that, she didn't love you anymore an just wanted to spite you over something you can't control. Hell, she probably wasn't referring to your height. Sorry, your story is just so unlikely.
That girl is an idiot and you deserve better. Shit, I"m 5'1 and 5'10' is tall to me sooo. she's messed up.
I'm 5'3" and I think 5'10" is a great height, not every guy needs to be over 6ft. If she broke up with you over something as stupid as height (which you have no control over) then she isn't worth your time. Move on and find a girl who will love all of you.
i can be almost positive its not your height.
i think this is a bs post. its hard to beleive someone is that stupid to imply 5 10 is short or use that to size up your manhood.
just like women who say dick makes a man, these people are really stupid as fuck.
Yes, get her back. She obviously stopped feeling for you and made up a stupid spur of the moment excuse that was superficial and meant to hurt because it's something no one can change but... you should still try...
Really? NO! Move on, she already has.
First of all you are tall and if that was the only reason she is saying that "you are not a man" and if she wants to leave you ONLY because of that... TheN seriously let her go because she doesn't deserve you and you deserve a better one. BUT again remember that my opinion is based on what you said but I don't know if there are other reasons why she wants to leave you
SHE IS THE DUMBEST GIRL ON THE PLANET!!!
5'10" is the best height.
She realised it after 2 years? LOL she's just making dumb excuse.
You should erase her from your life.
Makes me sad, I am also 5"10' and have been made fun of or turned down because of my height. Girls just like guys over 6" ft tall, a fact of life... Often the shortest girls like the tallest guys too.
Sounds like she is using any excuse she can find to end it.
Screw her, you deserve someone who doesn't put you through hell and who appreciates you.
How do you know she was referring to your height? If that is the case you don't need her... I'm 6ft and have been with a guy who was 5'9. I really liked him but he didn't wanna do the distance thing.
wow, for height? that's the dumbest excuse ever, man you are lucky a girl like that is not in your life anymore, it's an actual insult to your intelligence
Obviously she didn't love you that much if she's trying to use height as an excuse. You deserve a lot better. You deserve someone who likes you because of your personality and who likes your physical appearance. I went through the same thing bc I'm mixed but my skin is kinda dark and my ex was white and he broke up with me bc his family didn't want him to date a black girl. So this may suck now but I guarantee you will find the right girl.
You don't need to have such a superficial girl by your side. I think you were lucky that you got to see that side of her before you got yourself into trouble aka marriage!
She is clearly not worth your time, nor was she ever worth your time. Because that's probably not her real reason, and she's a liar.
Well, there's always Smurfette.
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5'10 is pretty tall. Guess she wants a lurch lol. I say you could do better. Her reason for breaking up with you is beyond stupid.
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