Guys say they love older women because there is no drama. I used to think that meant they liked a woman who has her act together and is level-headed, not coming with a bunch of emotional drama. Now I am beginning to suspect it means that they want a girl/woman who doesn't expect them to hang out, make plans or talk to them unless the guy is feeling it. I think some guys consider it drama for a woman to have expectations of them and their time.
I think no drama is another way of saying they want a casual deal, nothing more. But, you tell me...
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I think it depends on the guy-it sounds like you have the wrong man to be honest!Some older women can be cougars-really rich and independent and that can attract younger guys who don't have their stuff together.Guys prob find that power attractive but ultimately emasculating! Wouldn't cougars be more into their career than love? Maybe that's why guys go for them.
Sorry for saying cougar-I cudnt think of a better word to describe what I meant. I'm not a guy so I don't really know-just givin my opinion lol! I think guys DO like older women because they are mature. But if a guy wants to be casual with a girl, let me tell u-he'll do that with any girl, young or old. Guys can mess girls around regardless of age. What you're describing just sounds like a booty call and or at the very most friends with benefits. Maybe you're right and they do want a casual thing-I don't know. But how young are these guys you're going for? I mean, it'll last for a while but wouldn't it just be a fling anyway? Say you're 46 and he's 25-what would you have to talk about? Take Madonna for example. Her guy is only 22!The same goes for older men-I like them admittedly but I would have absolutely nothing in common with a 50yr old guy. Age gaps are fine if there's less than 10yrs in difference. But after that its a dicey-I don't know it could work out grand but its not as likely.