Boyfriend called me a bitch during a mini argument what to do?

I really need some advice on this. This is the story. I texted my boyfriend at the end of a work day. He is still at work. No reply from him. Then he calls. I couldn't pick up because I was still at work. I told him that and a follow up question if he was going to the gym. He called again. I asked him is he wasn't getting my text messages. He then said call him when I'm done because he was going to the gym. My cousin had called , which I haven't talked to in a while so I decided to call him first. My bf got mad at me be because I did not call him right when I left work. I became upset and started to yell. Then he said who are you talking to bitch. I was livid. Now I want to end the relationship. He has called me bitch before. Am I overreacting? I know I was wrong for yelling but I felt like he went to far. Suggestions please?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I would say, give it a few days, maybe even a week, to think about it. Apologize for yelling but let him know that he cannot do that and that it's not ok to disrespect you like that. After thinking about it for a few days, if you still feel the same way about breaking up, then do it. But just make sure you're not acting out of anger. If you do decide to give him another chance, make sure he never gets away with calling you a bitch again.

  • That would be a deal breaker for me. That's completely out of line and a lady has to have enough respect for herself to not tolerate being called names by anyone let alone her own boyfriend or husband.

  • I would break up with him and that says a lot coming from someone as young as me. Not into any immature crap

  • Has he called u a bitch be4? Or is this the first time?

    • He's called me a bitch in two arguments before

    • Well its not the right thing to do in a relationship, yelling is fine but he just swore, did he apologize? If so, then forgive him, and if he continues to act this way then maybe u guys are better off apart. I remember the first time my ex swore at me it didn't feel right and i hated him after that becuz the next time he almost slapped me so things got a little far, so i just broke up with him.

Most Helpful Guys

  • break up with him he was being a b**** and being extremely dom. If you take it, he will fell like he has total control over you. I suggest u break up with him.

  • Hey if u got loud u were being a bitch. I agree with him. Learn your role and dont get out of line. Your talking to a grown man show some respect.

    • die respectfully

    • lmao a relationship is 50/50 not master/slave if u like that go time travel to the 1600 and treat her like a slave and a whore or whatever u like :)

    • u get no pussy

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  • no, you're not wrong! i would be pissed as well. when you both calm, talk about it. don't end the relationship over a fight, unless it is certainly necessary

    • Thanks that's a good idea. I'm so mad right now that I can't even look at him

  • Cry about it.

    • it’s obvious you get no pussy