i'm currently staying with my ldr boyfriend for a month. (yay) we're half way into the month and I am currently not working so that i can have this time to spend with him and so that we can both kind of see where things go between us ( althought I do want a job ).
He does work from 8am until 5pm on Monday to Friday . While he's working I stay at the apartment, usually I clean up our room and the kitchen if we've made a mess, i do laundry when it gets full, and I cook meals usually. So... The only time I actually sit down and do nothing is usually when there's literally nothing left to do around the house (I'm a busy body, i get bored easily and I hate sitting around doing nothing) I aslo do school work while he's at work.
Usually the time we spend together is when he gets home from work and he usually eats then sleeps, or eats, plays xbox, then sleeps. Sometimes he'll ask for favors like setting something up or getting him a drink, or massaging or rubbing his back, and if i say no he whips out the I've worked hard all day to provide for us card ( he did pay for my flight here..) also, if i dont feel like doing something or if i ask for a favor he says he has a lazy girlfriend or that he's worked all day and i should do it.
And if i try to get him to go out for stuff we kinda need, like food and laundry stuff he doesn't want to go out after work because he's too tired. and on weekends he doesn't want to go out because he's worked all week and he wants to relax. but I've been sitting in the apartment all week (going crazy and being lonely) that all i want to do is get out of this room. Am I really being lazy if i have no choice but to sit in this apartment? and is it unreasonable to ask to go out on weekends when he's been working all week?
He does work from 8am until 5pm on Monday to Friday . While he's working I stay at the apartment, usually I clean up our room and the kitchen if we've made a mess, i do laundry when it gets full, and I cook meals usually. So... The only time I actually sit down and do nothing is usually when there's literally nothing left to do around the house (I'm a busy body, i get bored easily and I hate sitting around doing nothing) I aslo do school work while he's at work.
Usually the time we spend together is when he gets home from work and he usually eats then sleeps, or eats, plays xbox, then sleeps. Sometimes he'll ask for favors like setting something up or getting him a drink, or massaging or rubbing his back, and if i say no he whips out the I've worked hard all day to provide for us card ( he did pay for my flight here..) also, if i dont feel like doing something or if i ask for a favor he says he has a lazy girlfriend or that he's worked all day and i should do it.
And if i try to get him to go out for stuff we kinda need, like food and laundry stuff he doesn't want to go out after work because he's too tired. and on weekends he doesn't want to go out because he's worked all week and he wants to relax. but I've been sitting in the apartment all week (going crazy and being lonely) that all i want to do is get out of this room. Am I really being lazy if i have no choice but to sit in this apartment? and is it unreasonable to ask to go out on weekends when he's been working all week?
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