Id ask him once a month to see if we are still on the same page. This April i asked him and he straight up changed on me.
He no longer wants kids, claims its too much work and he doesn't want to bring kids into a hotrible world. Also he wants yo be able to do things, "cant do anything if you have kids" is what he says
Then said he doesn't want to get married because its stressful.
I'm not sure what to think, i want to experience being a moyher and having a family. I want to get married and so on. With him..
I finally thought i found the one for me, he claims the same, but i dont want something like this to end us. I tell him maybe in A couple years his mind will change but eh, he says he doesn't know.. and he wants to stay together.
Any advice?
I was not rushing, it was just the fact that he talked about it constantly Then out of the blue changed his mind.
The main reason i found out why he started to change was, an ex from 2 years ago came back in town.
He left , and claimed "everything changed when i saw her. I wanted to pursue a long relationship with you, but when i saw her my feelings came back. I dont know what i'm doing..
" to make it clear, im 21 and he is 25 going on 26, i only asked him numerous times because i felt he wasn't being honest about a lot of things.
Marrige
Kids
Us
How he felt about me
In the end he admitted to it, his words (copy & paste) " i'm so sorry youmean so much to me and you know that. I wanted to pursue a long relationship with you i noticed that my feelings or you were changing. Then my ex came back, and i notoced i still had f
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