You both are never going to put the past behind you if you don't Try and help the situation at hand with this man. I feel, too, you probably are his Rebound, however, if you show him you are this "Depressed and insecure person," you will find yourself losing him to even another and Not just the one Whom-----May not only be his "friend" forever.
It's afresh break up between the both of them and he hasn't begun to lick his war wounds just yet. He probably will have feelings for her to maybe even last a life time because she most likely was his First love and that is a hard thing to compete with.
You have known from the beginning of this lost but not quite forgotten beguine that he had feelings for her and you knew what you may be in for. So if you don';t want o add more salt to the wound, hang in there, show him just how much your undying love is and hope for the best with your relationship.
If you want to fight fire here, dear, stay strong, try to leave the past behind with what had happened with them before and just remember, you have him now.
Good luck. xx
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You aren't a crybaby at all. And no don't feel like you weren't good enough. It's HIS responsibility as your boyfriend to make you his priority and not say things like that to other girls! I'm sorry this happened to you. I would have a hard time trusting him after that.
It can be very hard to forget about things that have happened in the past. I have the same problem. All you can do is talk about it and decide what's best for you, and if you do want to stay with him just see if you can try to forget it with time. 5 months is still fairly fresh, it might take more time to let yourself heal from that.
Honestly, I didn't even bother to read the details of your answers, I read the question and I know what to advise: Dump him. Now.
Or else, you will have to stay underconfident and sad about yourself all your life. No girl deserves for her boyfriend to say he loves someone else.
This is heavy you do need to watch a little I know because most people think I'm one of the nicest guys but about 7 months ago I left my girlfriend at the time for a girl I just met I felt horrible about it I knew I was being a jerk and I told my ex girlfriend that I was so sorry I was literally crying about it she said she hated me and I told her how I deserved her hate then she said she forgave me and that she wanted to get back together but I didn't want to hurt her again so I told her that I couldn't and that was it I lost her the girl I left her for is now my girlfriend and I love her but I'm worried I'll do the something again. So just watch him a little. Let him be friends with this girl but you need to make sure you hold on to him. Just make sure you give him some room tho
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I think it's odd that you're still calling him your boyfriend. Once he says that--unless if they are amazing friends--we're over.
was he drunk when he told her?
You need to leave him... He still loves her...
How do you know he said he loved her?
Just leave him.
Yeah just leav him
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