WE HAD PERFECT CHEMISTRY---but he has a girlfriend. Guys & girls please help

blues77
Alright, so the other day I get on the bus and this really cute guy is standing next to me with a guitar, and he's reading a book. His hair is black and flowy, and I was immediately entranced, like---whoa, this guy plays guitar AND reads!?

So I take out my phone, and type in "Hey, you're pretty cute. How long have you been playing."

I ended up giving him my number and we texted a lot and agreed to meet a day later.

We went to the park and could not take our eyes off each other. It was not so much the sexual attraction, but we had so much to talk about---books, philosophy, films, music, aspirations, etc. We hit it off amazingly.

The next day he texts me "Good morning, precious," and complimented me so much about my "luxurious hair, unreal skin, and radiant eyes" and whatnot. He seemed authentic.

Then we went off texting each other questions, "Whose your role model? Favorite artist? Favorite food?" and then I throw in, "Do you have a girlfriend?" for the hell of it.

And he does.

I told him, "you're an ass for leading me on, but there's no reason we can't be friends."

Later, I texted him I lied, and that I didn't want to be just friends, and he's telling me that the connection he and I have is special and I should not destroy it.

I told him it wasn't fair for me, because I'd be so attracted to him, and he'd still have a gf.

WHAT SHOULD I DO?

I can't believe I'm letting this amazing guy slip out of my hands, but I don't want to put myself in a position where I'm in the position to get my heart broken even more.

I seriously fell in love and had my heart broken in 3 days.

So, should I playfully text him

"So, I decided that I can let the whole girlfriend thing slip by me. We can still be friends"

or just say "Look, if this connection is amazing as you say it is, then you've got to decide between your girlfriend and me"

or...just not texting him anything, and wait for him to get back to me?

What do you guys think?
WE HAD PERFECT CHEMISTRY---but he has a girlfriend. Guys & girls please help
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