How to know if someone want to be your friend or not?
I having a tough time reading this girl.
I known her for a couple months. The first time we met, she introduced herself to me and my friend in class. She is in two of my classes and only sit with me in one. She only calls me when she wants to talk about hw. She helped me when I call her about homework. She helped me with a favor before and she also bought me coffee for helping her. She seem friendly when I talk to her but she could just being nice like I am being nice to everyone.
Now this is where I get these little hints that tell me she doesn't want to be friends. I invited her to my birthday party and she said yes but then she said she couldn't make it on the night of the party (I could excuse this since some of my friends couldn't make it). I am ALWAYS the one who initiate the conversation on topics OTHER THAN hw and try to keep it going. We have short conversations. When we walk together, she always the first one to say "see you later" even though we headed the same way.
I don't want to be the person who can't take a hint.
What are your thoughts?
I am the type of person who help out others so I can't really tell.
How can you tell if the person doesn't want to be friends or not?
I guess I could just ask her if I am a friend to her or just an acquaintance. How would I do that without it being awkward?
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