Once you go black, you're a single mom?

[Anonymous]

Is there any truth to this? My friends always tell me this. I'm white and my long term boyfriend is black. We want to have a baby in the future. Where do they get this from?

yes

no

possible

Just use protection.

[Anonymous]

Let the facts speak. 72% of black babies are born to Single Moms. White female and black male marriages fail far, far more than any other race combinations. The white female is almost always the one who files for divorce, on average after 7 years and 2 kids. The number one reason is he is "selfish" meaning he spends his money on himslef, nit the family. Number two reason is cheating. The wife almost always tries to keep him from seeing the kids after the divorce.

Single moms have an average income of $24k a year which is full time at $12 an hour. Married moms have an income of $81k a year. WF/BM mixed race also has less income than white couple by quite a bit.

Here is a link:

www.politifact.com/.../

[Opinion Owner]

People on here will try and convince you it isn't so. They just don't know, the facts are out there. A lot of women have tried to do what you are doing and they end up alone raising the kids. Just be ready for it. Almost no guy will take you after that, you can see that from the polls on here, especially with a black baby. Learn from the mistakes of others, don't be naive. His culture isn't going to have him amrrying you linterm and raising those kids. He may stop by e very now with some presents or hang out and F you, but not spend the huge amount of money to raise them. You are on your own.

[Opinion Owner]

More links to facts, not politically correct opinions

thoughtcatalog.com/.../

www.divorcesaloon.com/.../

[Eugene]

Best answer right there, based solely on facts, not some politically correct bullshit.

[Toad-1]

All i see is a lot of fried chicken and watermelon in your future. be prepared!

[Pragmatic-Asshole]

Of course this is true, only 25% of African-American children live in a two parent home.

[Charlotte_May]

Lawdy I sho likez mah wawdamalon

[AdmiralBailey]

60% of black dads live with their kids. They're just not married to the mother. Stop spreading this lie because you hate interracial relationships.

[Charlotte_May]

@AdmiralBailey ""60% of black dads live with their kids"" In prison

[AdmiralBailey]

@Charlotte_May They actually spend more time with their children than any other race (whether they live with the kids mom or not***) while other races of dads are out drinking Natural Ice and sniffing opioids.

[Jovi_]

Totally not true.. that's a huge stereotype. Females go and get pregnant by men who are irresponsible, immature, and have nothing going for themselves and then wonder why the child's father isn't taking care of the kid. Take it from a child of a black father... My dad has NEVER abandoned my family. He has always been the provider, has been married to my mom for 30 long years, and is happy. You have nothing to worry about, it sounds like you've met a nice guy, I wish you two the best in the future.

[wyattmorgan]

Its not a stereotype you idiot. There is real life census data conducted by the United States government that found that 70% of the black population is born and raised to a single mother. No other race comes close. You are blind as a bat. COMPLETE IDIOT!

[burnthecoal]

@wyattmorgan calm down you ugly loser kys

[Hanjheo]

It's a stereotype. Honestly, race has nothing to do wih bein a single mom. If you two decide on it, just know what you are getting into and just know that there's always a possibility of it, regardless of background or skin colour. But, with that said, it doesn't mean that he will necessarily leave you as a single mother.

[wyattmorgan]

It isn't a stereotype its based on real life experiences of everyday people and not to mention US census data that says 70% of the black population is born to single mothers. You're a tool and will say do and believe whatever your friends tell you is moral. Even if it means subscribing to a false reality.

[Hidden_P]

Lol wtf? No.
Colour of skin doesn't mean that you will definitely be single.

My friend is in a long term relationship with a black man. She's been with him for over 10 years, they have a baby together. They are one of the happiest couples I know.

Your friend is talking crap.

[wyattmorgan]

Well its not against the laws of physics but it is against the generally accepted mathematics of probability. Don't forget. NONE, not even one self respecting white man will EVER EVER marry you even if you just have sex with a black man let alone have a child with one and are a single mother. There is a good reason for this. Its a huge red flag that says you are unstable and stupid. Don't believe me? Try it. See how your life becomes something you never thought it would become when you were little.

[Charlotte_May]

When a she-boon has 5 turdlers all named Tyrone how does she tell them apart?
By the last name

[JSmith925]

I find that most issues of race really come down to culture, education and economics. If your boyfriend was raised in a healthy environment, he will be a good man. If he grew up in a cesspool of poverty, substance abuse, violence, etc. he will likely be damaged and unpredictable. But then, that would be true if her were Caucasian.

[PercyXO]

Lmfao sorry but that made me laugh.

Lots of men bail on their pregnant girlfriends. Not only black guys.

If you want a baby with this guy don't you think you should first trust him enough to not do something like that to you?

[Kshppatel]

Lmao this. I will never understand why girls have sex with guys they know aren't any good and then expect them to stick around.

[PercyXO]

Having sex is one thing but having a baby with them and not trusting them is another haha @Kshppatel

[TJM27]

It does happen pretty often especially in low income neighborhoods but it's racist to assume that a black man will walk out on his family. Anyway, you should always use protection until you're married and financially and emotionally ready to raise a child

[wyattmorgan]

Its racist to base your life decisions off of facts.

[OldMarriedGuy]

It is just a saying that someone made up a long time ago. If a girl prefers a particular race for any reason then of course they will continue dating that particular race. I am a Caucasian male and I have had several girlfriends in my past that dated black males before dating me.

[Charlotte_May]

damn son sucks to be you

[wyattmorgan]

You are what they call a cuck.

[Charlotte_May]

@wyattmorgan First the sluts "have fun" with a bunch of gangbangers in the hood, then when they start sagging they settle for a cuck white boy with money who worships her like a goddess because of "muh colonialism"

[AdmiralBailey]

You can't say none of us want to get married. I'd like to get married. But most of us won't for financial reasons. Lack of a secure household as children will make man just feel like he's going to fail as a family man even if his best foot is forward.

[rthomas43]

I mean, statistically speaking, there is some truth to it.
But if you find a good, morally sound man, race won't be relevant.

[rthomas43]

Why the fuck am I being down voted?

[Asker]

They don't like you.

[rthomas43]

That seems to be the case. Lol

[wyattmorgan]

You're down voted because this woman is not going to get the isolated incident superman out of the common cesspool. She is going to have a terrible life all because you want to get yourself off sexually by saying things you think make you moral and relevant.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry to say my cousin did, and has, three times over. I doubt she could even name the fathers.

Not saying it's guaranteed, but that's my family's only experience.

[Opinion Owner]

Downvote all you want. I think it's more on her than anyone else, but it ain't a good track record. She's the example my parents always pointed to for why my sister and I shouldn't date outside our race. Hasn't stopped me.

[RationalMale]

You do understand that in the black community, only 28% or so of births are to married women, right? As in, if you're not a single mom in the black community, you're a weird minority.

If you don't believe me, go google the stats.

[Anonymous]

Wow your friends are retarded. Not all of us would leave our moms. I got adopted and I think of my mom as superwomen. Stereotypes are going to kill us all

[Opinion Owner]

Fuck this dude for the downvote. Cross me and you'll meet my fists

[wyattmorgan]

Once again its not a stereotype its literal census data conducted by the most powerful government in the history of the planet.

[couldntthinkofaname]

That is not true there are so many stable interracial families. If you actually loved your boyfriend you wouldn't believe those lies and you would trust him.

[BiffWebster]

-_- its funny but no
it the stereotypical jerk off's that make it a reality. And then everybody remembers it, and they develop something called prejudice.

[wyattmorgan]

Its not a stereotype. This is real census data by the United States government. Whats also true is that you live in your own world and believe things based on what will make you feel good and moral rather than what is actually happening in the external world.

[Anonymous]

It's not a guarantee. I think it's just most of the time. Out of 35 years on this planet I have never ever seen a black man with white kids stick around. But there are white girls with black kids at every bus stop and welfare office because he is no where to be found

[KDA20]

It is stereotypes - I am sure there is every possibility you could have a long and happy relationship.

[FallenAngel92]

It doesn't matter what race the guy is, if he isn't a man he won't man up.

[Afrochick]

I really don't blame the stereotype. From my experience it has been a prevalent one. Not all black men are like this though. Take it with a grain of salt but watch your man's actions.

[wyattmorgan]

Its not a stereotype you idiot. There is real life census data conducted by the United States government that found that 70% of the black population is born and raised to a single mother. No other race comes close. You are blind as a bat. COMPLETE IDIOT!

[Afrochick]

Lol calm down loser.

[Brian-Brain]

You are not dating the black community. You are dating a man. So the only thing you need to do is look at the content of his character. There lies your answer.

[DivaMonae]

Your friend is a dick no it's not true. My parents have never been together so yes she's technically a single mom but my dad is in my life, takes care of me, and isn't a deadbeat.

[AleDeEurope]

No. I mean, it's possible, but with any man (or woman) the possibility is always there, but just because he's black it doesn't mean he'll leave you.

[aamy811]

Obviously it's not impossible because if your having unprotected sex you'll probably get pregnant regardless of race