My boyfriend is turning me into a lesbian?

[AlwaysHis]

My boyfriend treats me like I'm nothing; he doesn't respect me, calls me names sometimes, often make jokes about how he's just using me, he doesn"t like my body, etc.

Also he still lives with his parents, they hate me and don't want me there. He doesn nothing about it and when they insult me he doesn't stand up for me.

He has broken up with me a lot and has always taken me back. He sometimes breaks up with me just to hurt me and he has admit to it.

He is just an awful boyfriend. But I love him.

But now I'm starting to realize that after everything my boyfriend has done I feel like I can't stand men anymore and I keep seriously feeling I want to date a girl. If I had the chance I would date a girl and leave him. I'm serious.

Is this normal? What should I do? And how do I meet lesbians anyway? It's a very new, foreign feeling and concept to me.

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[Anonymous]

leave him asap , no motherfucker has the right to insult you like that, stand for yourself.. if u cannot…then dont expect someone else to do it for u.. love and respect yourself, your body and everything about you is perfect.. a real man does not exhibit such traits like your "boyfriend"
and about dating girls, if you are so sure then give it a try but do not ignore the possibilities of it being just a phase.. not all men are the same maybe you find the right guy who treats you just the right way every girl deserves to be treated.. and honestly if you continue letting someone disrespect you, mam you can never be sure sure that ur female lover might just do the same to you.. love and embrace yourself l, your dignity and self respect should be above everything else

[spuitkaas]

This is pretty stupid. Sexuality is not a choice. It's not like 'all men are jerks, I'm becoming a lesbian'. You are one or you are not. if you've never felt sexually attracted to a girl before, you're probably not a lesbian or bi.
Also way to make a generalisation. 1 guy has treated me like shit, now all guys must be like that. That's bullshit ofcourse. Leave your boyfriend, break the habit of breaking up and getting back together and maybe stay single for a while. Being single is not that bad and get to know yourself a little bit more again.

[JulyAndrews]

What about your own responsibility in this? in stead of hating all men take a very critical look at yourself first! Why would you ever stay with such a person? You really don't love yourself if you allow a person to treat you like a commodity.

[singlebee]

I think he has lowered your confidence so low that you feel you wanna date a girl...
But all you have to do of dump your current asshole boyfriend and stay single for a while and then find a good guy who treats you hold and loves for who you are... And you will feel all right...😊

[Cumere96]

The problem is uve just been hanging out with that asshole for too long not all guys are like that

[GunnerGirl]

You should leave your boyfriend... don't love someone who doesn't give the love back, it's wrong and will just just hurt you more :/

There are bad men like him, but there are also nice guys, they DO care

[9mfeo]

It's normal to feel turned off by men when you've been abused. Distrust becomes a defense mechanism. Honestly, get out of that relationship because you deserve better. He's a piece of shit and you are a goddess.

[GirlScoutsRevenge]

You don't sound like you want to sleep with girls, you sound like you want to stop dating assholes. Two very different things - try not to get them confused.

[Justacatlady]

WTF, why do you want to feel worthless and useless. That makes you feel love for this D-bag? Doesn't matter who you want to date. You just need to leave the relationship for good!

[FallenAngel92]

Hey try going out with a girl and see if it really is for you. There are lesbians everywhere, so just pay attention and you will meet some.

[bubble_tea]

I have never heard of such cases.
Hating men doesn't make women more sexually attractive to me.

[bubble_tea]

Maybe I should clarify that I don't really hate men.. lol

[Mikaychay95]

Why do you keep getting back with him? Break up for good you deserve better

[Carlsasi]

You're just using this has a excuse for not breaking up..

U can't blame on the gender its self thats pure re-tardness.

[bboyroxas]

get rid of him please and gain some respect for yourself you are worth so much more I promise.

[Anonymous]

Getting back together after a break up involves two people. You can't just blame only him for that.

He's clearly not good for you. Stop going back.