Just tell him, you don't need to say why. Just that you're scared of the dark and need a lamp or something. I'm a couple years older than you and I'm scared of the dark to, but I've never met a guy who dissed me for it. They just say ok and keep the lamp on, maybe try act tough and say oh don't worry I'll look after you etc... He won't think you're pathetic. People have fears, whether it's dogs, spiders or the dark.
Try and get used to the dark though. It's good to try and get rid of fears, but it's not wrong to have fears.
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Yes, just tell him. There's nothing pathetic about it considering what happened when you were younger. He'll understand for sure, don't worry about it.
Just tell him your story. Your not alone, I used to be afraid of the dark because I would watch a lot of horror movies.
Just tell him everyone has that one thing that they are scared of and they think itsridiculous or irrational or as you put it, pathetic you might be surprised that he has something as equally pathetic that he is scared about.
play him this song.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nba3Tr_GLZU
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I'd just tell him, i know it might be hard to share this kind of stuffs with someone but he might be able to help you to get over your fear of darkness.
If you have a boyfriend you shouldn't have a secret that big about your self... If he has a problem with it he isn't meant for you
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Lord Give Me The Strength!Tell it to him straight to his face
yeah just tell him about it
you could just tell him
You: "I'm afraid of the dark."
Him: "awww"
lol"dear boyfriend, i am scared of the dark"
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