So I have been dating this girl for 6 months and we have been inseparable; spend almost all of our time with each other and are very close and... Show More
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Here is the thing that is the biggest problem: Premarital sex-----had you both not engaged in this----you wouldn't be worried about loosing her----you would be going about you day as usual, concerned for her needs and giving her the attention she desires, maintaining those boundaries that were there at first in the relationship. It is time to rebuild those boundaries, give her, her space and let her know you need your space as well.
Here is a suggestion tell her you are going to start attending bible studies with some guy friends from church twice a week----and don't answer her incoming call there for the hour or two that you are there. Wait to call her back for about an hour or so and when you call her talk with her about the bible study and suggest you start going to bible studies together for couples---cause you are ready to take this relationship to a heavenly level. Now if she is for really in love with you, she will definitely be thrilled----and if not, your true love is still out there preparing herself to you!