How to get a non-committal man to commit?

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So i met this guy awhile back (3 months ago). He seemed very interested, i even had friends analyze the convo and it did seem like he was being flirty. We went on a couple of “dates” & even made out on one of them. Everything was going pretty well but he kept sending me mixed signals. Then I finally confronted him and he said he wasn’t ready for commitment. We stopped talking after i vented out on him. Then i finally apologized for venting (10 days later). We made up & he still doesn’t seem like he’s gonna get committed. Part of me wants to leave and never see him again. Another part of me wants everything to work out in the end. I felt like i gave him too much of myself before (i would reply to his texts ASAP and even double texted…). I feel like he’s emotionally unavailable cause his ex cheated on him & he’s afraid of getting hurt. What should I do to win him over (or in general)?
Thanks
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Let me rephrase the question, what should i do about the current situation? What's the best way to handle it?
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I have him back in my life again (basically a restart). How should I handle it this time (if at all)?
How to get a non-committal man to commit?
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