My boyfriend openly admits he notices other ladies, and I openly admit if I notice other ladies, too (I am bisexual, and I tend to notice ladies more than men).
My boyfriend and I were at the mall the other day, and my boyfriend sees a lady he finds attractive. He then nudges me and says, "Ooh, look at her, baby. She's hot." I took a glance at the lady, and checked her out and then honestly replied, "Nahh, I don't like her face." And then we went on about the rest of our day, hand-in-hand.
Another time, my boyfriend and I were in a bar, and I told my boyfriend, "Oh my God, babe. Cute girl. Over there" and I pointed at her. He looked over and agreed with me, saying, "Yeah, she is. Go talk to her! I'll back you up." I am bisexual, if that helps. it's just fun and games with us. We are both very committed to one another and we find each other very attractive, but we both aren't afraid to tell each other who else we find attractive.
of course it's normal to notice other people.
It only depends on with what intentions he looks at other women. It might just be looking in a sense "oh pretty" and nothing else or "oh pretty, I'd like to talk to her" then that is an issue.
I notice handsome men also, my boyfriend notices pretty women too, but he says (and I believe him) that there is nothing more going on in his mind other than him looking at an attractive person.
As long as he has eyes you can expect for this to happen :).
Just because people enter into a relationship with someone doesn't mean that they can no longer find others attractive.
As long as he isn't cheating then this sounds perfectly normal to me.
I think it's totally normal. It would be unnecessary to say it each time he does but even in a relationship you have eyes. Saying you don't notice attractive people would be a lie.
Normal normal. Don't think that because one is commited he will or should immediately stop thinking other women are beautiful or hot. Commited men are still men. This doesn't mean he would cheat on you or anything, just that he is a normal healthy man.
You should admit you also notice other men too. :)
Now, noticing is one thing, craving for is another completely different thing.
If he didn't notice attractive women, that would be a sign of being gay.
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Completely normal. I'd say that the vast majority of people notice attractive people, even if they are in a relationship with someone they find attractive.
Perfectly normal. The fact he admits it is a good thing because we're human and we are going to notice attractive people whether we intend to or not. It's human nature
Think of it this way:
He has pledged to only eat your cooking.
That doesn't mean he can't smell the pies that are baking next door.
"Noticing" is really hard not to do for guys. It's not a problem to notice attractive females. Most guys are aware of a lot of females around the room. As long as it stays at noticing, I wouldn't be very concerned if I were you.
u Noticing an attractive woman is normal. If he acts on it, that's where there are grounds for concern.
It's good because he trusts talking to you, he knows what he likes. When he starts lying or being quiet about it, then you should start to worry.
Yeah that's normal. A lot of people who are in commited relationships do that. I do it too. As long as he's not actually cheating or flirting with other women, I don't see a problem with it.
No, my boyfriend doesn't. He ignores other girls. But I mean just because he thinks another girl is attractive doesn't mean he likes her.
Very normal. It makes me trust him even more, he's not hiding anything.
Its nothing to be worried about and you probably do it as well
It's normal for some guys but for others they are so enamored with their girl that they don't. But not every relationship can be like that...
That's normal.
He's in a relationship but that doesn't mean he's blind to attractiveness
Completely normal. It's impossible to not notice other good looking people.
What do you mean by 'notices'?
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