Scars like this
Understand and try to help her with her issues
Don't understand, but try to be there
Leave her, she's crazy
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I'm not very good at helping others, but all I can do right now is give you my support. Self harm scars last longer than anyone can imagine. Not only that but, self harm scars have reasons behind them. Although it's not the best way to get rid of what you are feeling, it shows that you have been through tough times and have survived them.
I personally think that leaving someone with self harm scars and thinking they are psycho is just extremely rude and cold. I would, instead of walking away from them and saying bad things about the person, stay with them and help them through whatever it is that's causing them to feel like they need to cut.
And one other thing to NOT do when someone is cutting or is thinking of STARTING to cut. It's best to encourage them to stop or be there for them.
And the other best thing to do is not tell them negative things about them. It makes the situation worse and does not help at all.
So, if anyone is suffering through home or school or whatever problems. I'm here and I will listen, give advice and lend a shoulder for you to let out your emotions. I may not be the most Attractive or Confident person, but when someone I see is hurt psychically or emotionally. I won't hesitate to stop and ask them if they are alright.
If not, then I will be there for them. Help them through, and stay as long as possible just so they feel like they have others to turn to when they feel down.
I hope everything will get better for you. Remember this, without the dark there would be no stars, and with no stars how could it make our world brighter? Those stars are the people that are there for you. And are willing to help whenever you need it. The darkness may be there for a while, but it won't last forever, because a star will guide you through life when you need it the most.
I have some scars, definitely not ones like yours. The one that still shows were deeper than yours and I have maybe four or five left. It was never really a problem with men but as I said, I don't have that much of them. Yours will definitely be a problem with some men but I also think that some will accept it
I have Scars to... First, get help if you can. Seriously, before something goes badly wrong. Second, if you're worried about long term scarring, those don't look like they'll scar permanently (if that is your arm). If they do, and a guy rejects you because of them, he doesn't deserve you. Never forget that your an amazing person, and that no amount of scarring can take that away. Personally, if I fell for someone with scars, it wouldn't make an inch of difference, even if their still self harming. Anyone who thinks that they shouldn't have to deal with that part of you can stick it where the sun don't shine, because you're more important than their fear or discomfort. IN THE MEANTIME:
Ask someone you trust to lock up sharps. This will give you a bit of padding so urges can dissipate
Remember that at this time, relationships are not the most important thing. If you think a relationship would be healthy, and you find someone you can trust, go ahead, but it's more important that you protect yourself.
If you're having suicidal thoughts, or those cuts are suicide attempts, call 1-800-273-8255
Good Luck.
I'd try to help her and tell her that I can see her mental pain and tell her I'm here for her no matter what. I don't know what happens to you but I can see you have been though some rough times so I'm so sorry about what you went though. I hope things get better for you and that you some day meet the boy of your dreams.
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hi people i understand that u dont know y people cut but i do cuz. i do that i cut. yes i am a girl. and if u break up with the person and u know the cut and u still love them u should stay cause if that person likes u a lot or loves u and u leave , their going to be heart broken. i should know cuz i have been though that shit. and if u really love that person u will do any thing to make them feel better or stop cutting. and if still dont stop u should call 911 and tell the police that their suicidal or they are cutting so they go to the mental hospital. and while they are there u should not cheat on them cuz they are not there okay. oh a stay at a mental hospital is 3 days or more. i know cuz i have been in one oh not one more than one. so yeah. if u need help with relationships, cutting, suicidal thought, homosuicidal, or any thing text me i have sanpchat:yaritzal4554 instagram:yaritza6918
Those look fresh, and looks like you wouldn't even really notice them once they heal. I would just work with her, and try to help her. I got drunk one night and cut huge slits into my arm and was hospitalized. The scars are permanent, and i can't hide them. It is embarrassing and shameful, please don't do that to yourself.
She needs a guy who has a loving heart and will not pressure her
but support her in all ways but i think no girl needs put down cause
of scars it shouldn't matter to any guy if he really loves her.
She is crying out for help so help her don't add to the scars by running away x
I'd be your personal bodyguard, protecting you from yourself if I saw that
Oh my God! Girl, if you want to talk to someone, I'm here.
Oh honey! Please go to your parents and show them and tell them your angst
i will try to support her and convince her to follow a therapy
No I'll actually make her feel happy n full of fun so that she won't harm herself 😊
That would really scare me like she needs big time help
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