Bad vibes from my boyfriend?

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So I'm really worried about my relationship with my boyfriend. I've been away all summer, and I've had multiple dreams where he was cheating on me. What makes it worse, is that in the dreams I know he's cheating on me with someone he's shown interest in before (and continues to stay in touch with.)

Normally I'd just brush off this kind of thing, but the fact that this dream is so frequent now- and that I still know so little about this girl... All he's told me about her is that I remind him of her. It's like he doesn't even want me for me. But he DOES love me... And he's my first love, which is even harder. I want to tell him about the dreams and my confusion over this girl- but I don't want to seem untrusting or put my insecurities onto him... I wish I knew how to.

With my anxiety, sometimes I just feel like if be better off breaking up with him. He has this whole part of his past from a few years ago (back when he was pursuing this other girl) that he pretty much hides from me.
I just feel so uncomfortable thinking that he might just be using me as a substitute for this other girl in his life. Please help me.. What do I do? How can I tell him how I feel?

Bad vibes from my boyfriend?
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