How long have you been together? It's normal to find other people attractive when you're in a relationship and liking them can happen too, as long as he keeps his distance and doesn't act on it. How is your relationship otherwise? Has it been tense and stressful lately? Have you guys moved in together recently or made any other big changes? Like new schools, jobs, ect? Stress can bring these things About and it doesn't necessarily mean cheating. Crushes while you're committed to someone else can be normal as long as they fade within a month and don't go in to the "love" relm. It's very painful don't get me wrong. We all want to be the only person our partner wants. Maybe bring it up again but keep it light and try not to get accusational or defensive. He may not be opening up about the crush for fear of your reaction. Just say "I want to talk about this so we can fix it, but in order to I need to know everything even if you think it's going to hurt my feelings. I'm trying to listen and I'm all ears"
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Damn that hurts a lot. The fact that he's lying can mean two things: he does love you and doesn't want to upset you or he's just being a guy avoiding a fight. Either way, you know the truth so you gotta tell him you've been feeling insecure about the whole situation and you should give him space if he agrees. Dont give it more time and drag the problem making it worse. Talk and find a solution.
He doesn't love you.
He likes another girl too.
That doesn't scream "faithful" or anyone you want to waste your time on.
He needs to want you if he has you, and only you.
Smack the fool let him know side hoes are off limits
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Leave him. He may stray and cheat. You don't want to stick around for a man who's not 100% serious about you
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