To a certain extreme, yes this is degrading yourself.
"Submissive instincts" can e a weakness because there are plenty of predatory men or simple lazy assholes who will take advantage of your generosity and/or lure you into an emotionally abusive relationship if you are committed to acting like that. If you are determined to act that way with a guy no matter how much of an asshole he is or how much he doesn't reciprocate then you are going to get walked all over, used, and taken advantage of. Subjecting yourself to that would be degrading. Men should earn that type of treatment. Also, you don't want to act like that so early and often that you start treating him like he's your child and not your man.
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Not at all, that's totally fine. It's your choice, as long as a guy isn't forcing you, it isn't "degrading" at all. You want to provide for your guy in a traditional way and that's completely fine. Some people prefer traditional relationships and I don't see anything wrong with that at all.
No your marriage material. Won't be lon until some guy snaps you up.
I think I can answer your question with a question actually. One I asked mysef:
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Stop listening to feminists it's not like any of them can get a REAL man anyway.
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No, feminism teaches you that you are, even if you want to, which is actually the opposite of freedom of occupation. You can be a housewife if you really want to, nobody is stopping you, and the more you cave in on what other people say you should do, the more you are really degrading yourself. Be what you want and don't listen to what others think about it.
You aren't degrading yourself. That's an excellent trait too have, but make sure that he shows you how much he appreciates it and hopefully he does the same for you.
Avoid the super gung-ho feminism options of today's society. Feminism is awesome, but sometimes people just want to take care of each other.
This is hilarious. 50 years ago this is what women did, and life was better in general. Now look how things are. No family, no home life, everyone is fat and lazy and dumb. I wish I was born about 50 years earlier so I didn't have to live in this hell hole we call life
No, that's your thing. I think that's pretty awesome actually. As long as my as he does the dishes afterwards
As long as he knows that doing that stuff is your choice and not your obligation, and appreciates that you do it instead of taking it for granted, you're fine.
If that's what you choose and that's what you enjoy, there's nothing wrong with that. Being FORCED to do so, on the other hand, is terribly degrading.
No cause you like to do it also I would love for you to be my wife lol.
no because he is not forcing you to do the above you are choosing it so you're good
What ;D?
Not at all ;) It's just fine if thats what you want to do.No you are fine - You are doing what makes you happy - You have a choice whether to do it or not.
well no... but most guys start looking at girls differently when the girl tries her best to mke him happy... soo
It's not degrading to want to do things for a guy because you love him.
No it is not degrading. Gender roles have been given by nature. Not society.
No. You do what you like!!!
that's totally fine. nothing wrong with it...
there's nothing wrong with it chill out!
It depends on what makes you happy.
No because its what you want to do
Nothing wrong
Its no ones bussiness anyways
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