My boyfriend keeps score!

He has a temper. And he has told me he likes things his way (well, who doesn't? but we have to compromise right?). He keeps score. Every time I do something that he doesn't like (and believe me, it's never intentional), then he uses it later to remind me that I mess up a lot. For instance... Show More

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  • I agree that you should probably just leave him, because that's not the kind of problem that just goes away or has a simple solution. He's insecure and defensive, and that causes him to lash out at you without thinking about YOUR feelings.

    You can try to talk to him about it and let him know that it really hurts you, but I'm not sure how successful that would be, because guys like him tend to just turn everything into an argument.