My friends with benefits asked me through text to come over and let his friend watch us have sex, I said "no, find someone else to do it with you two."
Two days later we hung out and he asked me why I wouldn't do that if I have been fine with strangers watching and joining, so I explained.
Then he said I was stopping him from doing it. So I said no, I told you to just get someone else to do it with you.
A week later he messages me saying that he still wants me to let his friend watch us. I said no, told him to get his friend to find someone or go on Craigslist and find someone else, like he does with me.
Well, he replied that I was being rude and he hasn't spoken to me.
WTF?
1. How am I stopping him from doing it if I'M the one suggesting he find someone else to do it?
2. Why would he be mad/offended to not speak to me? How am I being rude?
3. Do men like/respect and woman who stands her ground in this way?
Two days later we hung out and he asked me why I wouldn't do that if I have been fine with strangers watching and joining, so I explained.
Then he said I was stopping him from doing it. So I said no, I told you to just get someone else to do it with you.
A week later he messages me saying that he still wants me to let his friend watch us. I said no, told him to get his friend to find someone or go on Craigslist and find someone else, like he does with me.
Well, he replied that I was being rude and he hasn't spoken to me.
WTF?
1. How am I stopping him from doing it if I'M the one suggesting he find someone else to do it?
2. Why would he be mad/offended to not speak to me? How am I being rude?
3. Do men like/respect and woman who stands her ground in this way?
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