Why do girls have to dramatize everything?

[Anonymous]

I swear every time I'm with a girl and things are going smoothly and I'm not doing anything unfaithful or anything they find the nitpickiest things that make them believe your cheating on them.

Example:

1. I have my ex added as a friend on myspace. My current girlfriend confronted me with it and asked why the hell I had my ex added on myspace. WTF, can't you understand about someone being your friend and having them added at myspace. If you break up with someone that doesn't mean you hate them.

2. One of my friends (girl) called me and asked if I wanted to hang out later today cause a bunch of us were going to study for an AP test. My girlfriend was with me when she called me and 5 minutes later started crying in front of me and screamed "you like her don't you. "

Again why the f*** does the entire world have to revolve around you! I have other friends besides you get over it. And why does it always mean that I like another girl if I hang out with them. If this was going clubbing ok maybe I could understand, but this was going to someone's house to study for a frickin test.

Excuse the language but it really irritates me when girls don't have any real problems and have to find every little tiny thing to complain about and bloat it into something it's not.

[LifeWithGod]

People want to feel important. Its like a disease, like that you make yourself sick for attention. Honestly, when nothing is going wrong in your life, and everything seems too good to be true, you fall so much easier then when you have justification.

Personally, your girlfriend defiantly has issues, and is a little clingy, but confront her. Ask her if she trusts you. If she says yes, ask her why its such a big deal to go study. Get things out in the open, because girls analyze everything, and if you don't say what the issue is out loud, we may never know, or have five billion options. Its just easier when you keep things direct.

Here is the thing, you can still be friends with an ex, but if your girlfriend doesn't like it, leave the other girl alone. I would if a boyfriend I had didn't want me hanging out with an ex, or even another guy who liked me. You are treading in dangerous waters when you let temptation into your life. It makes a lot of sense- think about it, your ex is a girl you have been intimate with, and when a girl stands next to you and she sees you pursuing (even if its not really pursuing) another girl especially a girl you've been with, she will began to doubt herself- its like a girl-nature. You wouldn't feel comfortable if your girlfriend was a at party with you, and then sees an old boyfriend, and then just welcomes him back into her life with open arms in front of everybody? Myspace is so big these days, everyone could know.

[LifeWithGod]

Okay, just so we are clear, I don't think you should break up with her. If every time you have a girl and she freaks you out for one minute, and you throw her to the curb, relationships will NEVER last for you. You will essentially be practicing divorce. So if you ever want a real relationship, I suggest you work at maintaining the one you have. If it doesn't work then, feel free to dump her, you don't need that kind of baggage in you life.

[nique23]

Your girlfriend sounds INSECURE and while there are some girls out there not all of us are like that. Partly I feel this is a maturity thing a lot of young girls think that if they scream, cry, pout, and argue, they are getting their points across. . . They assume they win when in fact they just look silly and well YOUNG. Don't get me wrong older girls do it too. . . I don't know if you have had this problem with every girl , but as far as your girlfriend goes you can either sit there and play her game. . Or you can leave her there to sulk on her own. Life's too short to deal with the minor shit now ( excuse my language) there maybe plenty of drama later. . Its up to you how you deal.

[Anonymous]

Wow, she sounds insanely like me. I have trust issues. Maybe the same thing is going on with her. Maybe an ex really hurt her, cheated, lied, did SOMETHING to now have her act this way. Ask her about it. It's sooooo hard to trust a guy when the last one did something to you that just broke your heart so much. You end up seeing things where there aren't. Right now, in my case, I see things everywhere which is probably why I won't have a boyfriend in a long time. I always assume the guy has other girls on the side or is with all his friends that are girls or if he says he's studying or whatever, I'm like 'yea studying my ass' or that he's just playing me. Which is why I'm so alone lol

[sexwiseman]

Your age says it all; you're dealing with a bunch of children, most likely; as women get older many of them get smarter and wiser; however, there are the many that still love the drama and that's how they love to draw attention to themselves; fortunately though, plenty of smart women out there that don't play these drama games.

[AlexisxxJade]

Three letters for you, man-

PMS.

[337mspeakerr337]

Omg, dump her! What a drama queen.