From what I know, nobody has never been jealous of me. I'm only in my first relationship and not for very long so jealousy hasn't played a part if it ever will.
I have only ever felt jealous once. Or something like it. That burning unpleasant feeling in your gut yes?
I have uh. . . History with a friend. He showed up at my place with a girlfriend in tow. That was the first time I ever felt like I wanted to hate someone I didn't know a thing about.
It wasn't a nice feeling. I don't want to feel it again.
I can narrow it down to me feeling like I owned him (I didn't) us having talked about marrying each other (when we were eight) and me thinking I was more important to him than that girl and that he should be dating me (even though I didn't want to date him)
Early teen hormones are bloody confusing.
So glad I'm over that.
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Hahahah it's hella cute but it gets annoying when they over do it. It's cute when ur out with ur boyfriend and ur hot guy friend comes and ur boyfriend puts his arms around ur waist. But it's annoying when your boyfriend won't let you go to a party cuz he thinks you'll cheat on him...
It's a little bit cut when he's only mildly jealous because then he gets all possessive - not extremely possessive, but I mean taking my hand or putting an arm around me, and that's hilarious for me to experience. But when it goes into paranoia then it would not be attractive at all.
Jealousy is an ugly thing.
Nah I don't think jealousy is cute. The person who displays jealousy is insecure about their own allure and doubts the fidelity of his/her partner. It's a petty emotion and I can't handle it to be honest.
I don't cheat and I've never cheated. If I'm with a woman in a relationship it means I want to be with her. I actively want a future with her. I don't have time for people who doubt that in me.
cute to an extent because it shows she cares deeply for me and doesn't want to lose me
but too much jealousy is annoying. I don't want to have to explain myself or defend myself every time a girl looks at me, I go to a place where women might be, etc
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Jealousy sucks ! I can't even have sex with other women because of it ! Lol
Seriously, it suck. I have been told by a lover I should be more jealous because she thought I didn't love her. She even told me she let men hit on her to make me jealous. I told her I trusted her and if I shouldn't she should tell me now. I was pissed. She never brought it up again.Not jealous, no. But I like when he gets possessive over me. (side note, this isn't something I do to someone I'm in a relationship with) I like to tease about wanting to do things to another guy, etc. and when he gets all grumpy about it and tells me "no" among other tings, it makes me smile and feel warm inside.
It's fucked up but I find it hot as hell... while simultaneously being adorable.I find it sweet to an extent, it means that she really cares about me and about us, but if she's jealous for no reason (my ex once got jealous because I was spending the day with my COUSIN), then I just find it ridiculous.
I would never intentionally make my girlfriend/wife jealous, that shit is petty, manipulative, and just plain fucked up. If a girl/woman I'm dating EVER tries to make me jealous, I will dump her on the fucking spot. I will NOT put up with that bullshit anymore.Jealousy is NEVER cute. it is hateful and it is a disease to any relationship.
I won't put up with it in any relationship.
I also refuse to be jealous. If I have to worry about her being with someone else, she should just leave."Jealous" stands for territorial, distrustful, and controlling.
my ex used to flirt with waiters etc to get me jealous
The first time i broke up with her, i left her at the restaurant and told her to ask peter (our waiter) for a ride back home... after that day, she stopped doing that crap
She enjoyed me getting upset at her flirty ways... She mentioned a few times she liked seeing my jealousy, but now i am too mature for that bullshitYeah I want a guy who is kind of jealous I mean not someone who is tracking me down or something. There is a fine line between a protective and overprotective boyfriend. Like my ex was so much like whatever it made me feel like like he didn't care at all. I texted him once that I was having dinner with an ex and he was like K and I was annoyed at least ask me which ex and how long I am gonna be. Later he turned out to be a cheater who had 5 gfs behind my back
It is an extremely fine line to me... obsessing over it, or being rude to others is not cool and I would be upset with such behavior. Just enough though, to let me know they noticed someone else's interest is good. I think people who get jelous easily, either lack trust or self confidence though.
Yeah I've had this one girl always thought it was cue to make me jealous
no it's not cute but they do it when i gave her the silent treatment then
she cried and made me feel happy and like shit at the same time for making
her cry , Yes it's wrong in so many ways my heart is soft and has bled over
many women in my lifetime , don't know how it lasted this long before i just
cracked up from nervous breakdown.Oh Helllllll no! Jealousy is a big red flag and the moment I see it is the moment I GFTO.
Depends how jealous they'll be. I think it's acceptable to have a little bit jealousy in the relationship because it shows affection and how much you care about this person. But then if they're constantly jealous, clingy, over something you never did and they don't believe you, then that's typically a red flag.
No i dont find it cute. I find it rather annoying tbh
I am looking for a girl that understands how monogamic I am, that trust issue would be offending my personality
I don't think jealousy is cute but I did like when my SO got a tinge annoyed when I complimented someone else's good looks. Lol it was mostly famous people and he would get this really cute pout on his face haha we aren't together anymore although we're still friends. Does that count as jealousy though? :)
Seeing a brief flash of jealousy cross someone's face... yes. It shows that they love and desire you enough to want you all for themselves. But when someone acts jealous or possessive out of insecurity, it's not all that attractive.
Jealous isn't attractive but I can sort of understand what others might be talking about i don't know if i'd call it jealousy though, more like a type of concern? I don't know but i've never experienced jealousy in a relationship that didn't end in some way because of it.
no, there is nothing good about jealousy. its only a burden for the relationship...
Fuck no. Insecurity is not cute. It's a toxic thing that kills relationships. Anyone who thinks it's cute needs to get their head checked.
It's not cute. I really can't stand why someone gets jealous
I don't find it cute... my girlfriend would never have to be jealous. I reassure her that she is the only one for me!
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