Ex is avoiding me at work?

Anonymous
I broke up with my ex a week ago. Technically, he wasn't my boyfriend and we werent official, but we were dating and seeing each other for 4 months. The last date we went on was the fsir, we had a good relationship, but he kept telling me not to fall in love with him bc he just wanted sex. I told him that's fine bc Im trying to get over the ex before him that im still in love with. I saw him once a week, on my schedule so it wasn't anything clingy. But before the fair, a week before, I told him to stop flirting with this girl at work. He kept saying dont be mad, jealous, don't fall in love or have feelings, etc so I backed off seeing him that week to observe if he would flirt with her. He didn't so we went on our usual weekly date but to the fair. Everything was good then too but he said he wanted me to come over next month, which is this month, bc I told him maybe I need to see you next month for something, it stems from the earlier discussion we had about not having any feelings. So a week passes and I tell him I miss him and ask if he misses me, he said yeah but dont miss me too much or visit me too much. The same dont fall in love, feelings speech. Then he says Im busy working, it sounded disrespectful and belittling so I said ok I know. The next day, I told him im going to stop sleeping with him, we can't be friends, call me when you're ready for a relationship bc I shouldn't have to feel bad or punished for missing or visiting you more than once a week. From then, I've cut off contact. And he's been avoiding me at work. He doesn't smile anymore when I see him around other people, he will stare at me from afar but if our eyes meet, we'll look away fast. If I park near him or on that side, he'll move his car somewhere else. If he has to sit near me on the machine and someone replaces him, he literally runs away as fast as possible. So he's avoiding me like the plague and it kinda hurts. I'm acting normal, I stare at him when he's not looking,
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But why is he avoiding me? Is he doing no contact like me or genuinely hurt that I broke up with him? He told me not to get feelings.
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Yes yes I know. I'm not that sad about it. We just wanted different things.
Ex is avoiding me at work?
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