So I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and everything has been perfect. I mean we have our ups and downs but that's a normal part of relationships. But the past month he has been acting distant. He started hanging out with his friends again and choosing them over me. Saying he will see me and doesn't. Treats me amazing one day, then treats me like shit for a week, then sees me and acts like everything is fine, and it's a continous cycle. I have asked him ''Do you want to be with me or not''. It's a simple question to answer. Yes or no. But everytime I ask he just ignores me. I told him today that I wanted to know by tonight and he's just ignoring my calls because he doesn't want to answer the question. I'm guessing he just wants the best of both worlds. He says he loves me and he cares about me and all that nice stuff that I want to hear. But then he goes againist his word. He makes me out to look like a physco towards all his friends and family. He tells me we're together, but then he tells everyone else he's not with me (ashamed to be with someone that's a ''physco''). I know for a fact that there isn't another girl and he wouldn't do that. But it's always on my mind. I just don't know what to do. Why is he choosing his friends over me? He used to do everything and anything to make me happy and smile and now he doesn't even care if I'm crying my eyes out or he's hurting me. But why can't he tell me if he wants this or not. Today on the phone he said baby I do love you. Like that's not going to fix anything. Is he just stringing me along and treating me like shit so he can do whatever he wants. I just don't know what to do. I'm over crying every night over him. I just want to know but he won't tell me. Help!
My boyfriend is ''confused''. He won't give me a straight answer if we're together or not. Is he stringing me along? What do I do?
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