She has followed this pattern for 18 months...I'm sorry but I don't see any promise of change. From an outsider perspective and based on what you wrote, I don't think she is taking advantage and using you as a convenience. You visit her for a few hours but you wash her car, clean her home etc. Couples should be going out together, talking, going for a drive, enjoying each other's company. I am not sure what you're even getting out of this arrangement? I think you clearly have a lot to offer, and she doesn't give you or the relationship the time, dedication, love, respect and devotion deserved. The relationship is completely one sided and you're doing it all.
I cannot tell you what to do. However, I just encourage you to really ask yourself is you're happy in this, if you feel loved, are your needs being met and is this woman truly meeting your expectations.
Good luck.
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I can see two possibilities
a) she unfortunately doesn't like you as much as she says
b) she's just a person that likes their alone time
im going to go with b, because I think that's more likely as she does say she loves you. Some people just don't feel the need to see their partner for more than a couple of hours a week, but it doesn't mean they love them any less. She might value her time alone and feel that when she does see you its all the more special.
I don't think it means she doesn't love you, but then again if she's really not what your looking for in a relationship and her behaviour is really bothering you then you should talk to her about it or consider where the relationship is going.
No, her emotional involvement is zero, I think. She isn't really pretending otherwise...You're just coming off as desperate for affection.
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