My girlfriend says she loves me but doesn't care about me. is there hope?

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she says that she loves me but never in 18 months has she asked me to come to hers or stay over at hers. I want to see her as much as possible and would give every second of my spare time to her , yet she's happy to see me once every week or so and that's mostly only for a couple of hours . washing her car ,cleaning her house , having a lying , or just feeling like being on her own all come before me. when I pull her up about it she says I'm talking nonsense and it means absolutely nothing and why am I even mentioning it ! she came round to mine for the first time in over a year stayed for two hours then left. that was on a Tuesday , I saw her with my boys for an hour on the Saturday . I asked if I could stay over on the Sunday and the answer was no. I asked can we do something together on the Friday as we both weren't working on that day she said no and that weekend she wouldn't be free either !
My girlfriend says she loves me but doesn't care about me. is there hope?
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