Is roleplay online cheating?

[Anonymous]

Okay I'm a girl, I do role-playing online with other people. I'm always a guy in the roleplay and I end up doing gay rolsplays (DON'T JUDGE ME!!) Is it cheating if I get in a relationship?

yes

no

[normalice]

what qualifies is cheating is determined entirely by the couple. To some girls, if their guy so much as glances at a mildly noteworthy passing ass, it's cheating. And to some girls, as long as their guy doesn't wake up next to another woman, it's all good. You can appeal to the higher powers of the internet for a generic moral judgement, but ultimately, the only opinion that matters is your partner's.

[FakeName123]

If it's romantic to the sexual, yes I would call it cheating in a way as it is a form of sexting.

If you roleplay about being gaypirates stealing and robbing shit or something like this, no not really.

[justbanANNAz]

let's just clear this up. ANYTHING that diverts your sexual and/or emotional energy from the man you are supposedly 'in love with' is considered cheating.

if you're doing roleplay, having phone sex, sleeping with them, fantasising about them, etc, then you ARE cheating either physically or emotionally.

[truthhammer]

Someone give this longtime single lady a boyfriend. She is a keeper!

[justbanANNAz]

haha thanks so much, too kind. a boyfriend for Christmas would be quite nice actually! 😂@truthhammer

[Anonymous]

Cheating is not just about kissing, sex or sexual contact... If you have an SO and you hide the fact that you are role-playing online with another guy , then you are already there.

Even if a person didn't view it as cheating, it is still disrespectful towards their SO.

[Anonymous]

This is where the relationship comes to play though. Would you be okay with your boyfriend role playing like you are? If not, don't do it because it'd be hypocritical of you. I don't see why you should tell your boyfriend this but you know, whatever floats your boat.

[lumos]

That's basically sexting so yeah, I'd consider it cheating and I would not be happy if my partner did that.

[nightskycat]

If you need to ask, then it probably is cheating.
I think if your role playing and it gets sexual then you need to stop because that is probably cheating however, if your just role playing as a knight of round table or something, then no, your fine.

[ZionOrtov]

Are you engaging in intimate personal relationships with someone other than your significant other?

Then yes, it is indeed cheating, and it's wrong.

[Asker]

No it's made up characters

[ZionOrtov]

The way you interact with them, matters, if you act with them intimately and a relationship is formed that way, than you are cheating.

[kittykatg]

As long as your honest that its somethings that you do and no false promises are made then you're fine.

[Possible_Mate]

nah. it's like watching porn, or reading fanfiction, except that there's another person making things up with you.

[nakedalligator]

So your roleplaying, but like DnD roleplaying, except your'e gay and you fuck each other, have I got that right?

[jordan90]

Anything intimate with anyone other than the person you're dating is cheating.

[DamnCurtis]

If its all fun and games sure.
But if you start having serious feelings then you are in trouble.

[Asker]

It's not, would I have to tell my boyfriend

[DamnCurtis]

Then no.
Its essentially a joke if you know what I mean.

[jmmmfi2]

Yes it is what an awesome girlfriend you must be. He's a lucky guy.

[MrDetermined]

I don't consider anything online cheating

[MissNowhere]

If it's sexual, yes.