At my age, I'm looking to settle down and so does him. Thinking of marriage and having children in the future. I do love this man very much and I do want to be with him. After living with him for a year and I realized he has a lot of problems especially when it comes to finance and career.
His jobs don't seem to last for more than 3 months. He's been fired and resigned from jobs because he can't stand the position. It's a trend that the first month he does extremely well and all his collegues love him. After that, they all start to dislike him and then they get rid of him or he feels hated so he quits. He also has no savings so if he doesn't get paid/jobless, he would spend the last $50 for beer. Then, he would realize he needs to pay for bills but he's broke so I end up paying for him. Recently, his work is not giving him work on purpose because he's not been doing well. He just spends all day smoking weed and watching tv. The worst is one of his family member is taking advantage of our resources and since he's broke, i pay for his family member which i am very mad. If you're having money problem, and you're relying on me, don't bring your family member into the picture because I work hard for my money. Especially if both of them is just sitting at home getting high.
I come home really tired and I don't want to cook. He told me we can order take out. But the thing is, he's broke! So I'm paying again for you and your family member? I mean, he's been home all day why can't you cook? I'm pretty pissed what should i do? I am good with money with a professional permanent full time job for 4 years!
His jobs don't seem to last for more than 3 months. He's been fired and resigned from jobs because he can't stand the position. It's a trend that the first month he does extremely well and all his collegues love him. After that, they all start to dislike him and then they get rid of him or he feels hated so he quits. He also has no savings so if he doesn't get paid/jobless, he would spend the last $50 for beer. Then, he would realize he needs to pay for bills but he's broke so I end up paying for him. Recently, his work is not giving him work on purpose because he's not been doing well. He just spends all day smoking weed and watching tv. The worst is one of his family member is taking advantage of our resources and since he's broke, i pay for his family member which i am very mad. If you're having money problem, and you're relying on me, don't bring your family member into the picture because I work hard for my money. Especially if both of them is just sitting at home getting high.
I come home really tired and I don't want to cook. He told me we can order take out. But the thing is, he's broke! So I'm paying again for you and your family member? I mean, he's been home all day why can't you cook? I'm pretty pissed what should i do? I am good with money with a professional permanent full time job for 4 years!
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