No, you were not wrong. No one has a right to put their hands on you and I believe you actually did the right thing.
In fact, I had a similar situation occur with my wife - we've been together for going on 17 years now. We were arguing in a car, she got pissed, and bit the FUCK out of my arm. Omg it hurt so fuckin' bad.
I knocked the fuck out of her. I didn't punch her - I slapped her very hard. That was the only time she ever hit me and it's the only time I've ever hit her.
When a woman puts herself into a man's shoes, she needs to be prepared to be treated like a man. Just because she has boobs and a vagina gives her no 'extra' right to slap you and not expect to be smacked in return.
And if she slapped you first, you slapped her back, then she's crying that it's all your fault - then she needs to get her shit straight.
In fact, this society has raised their children to believe women are to NEVER be hit no matter what, but that's not how it should be. If a woman punches me, I'd like to think I'd punch her back. Granted, I would never punch a woman with all of my strength, but that's beside the point.
If you hadn't slapped her back, and did nothing, guess what would continue to happen later on down the line? She'd continue hitting you and it would get worse.
Granted - if you cheated on her or did something fucking horrific and she was flipping out, and you KNEW you deserved a good smack, then you shouldn't slap her back. But if it's just an argument of sorts and she slaps you. . . it is your duty as a human to strike back, because if you don't, she'll think she can do it over and over and over again.
Peace.
Yes. You were wrong. Doesn't matter why she slapped you first or even that she was the first to hit you. You probably said or did something pretty wrong if she slapped you. Apologize for hitting her, admit that it was a knee-jerk reaction, that you should have kept your composure and that you should have been man enough to just step away for a while and cool off. Promise her that it will NEVER happen again, and don't expect her to forgive you right away, even if you really mean that you're sorry and genuinely feel terrible about the whole thing. If she forgives you immediately and you to make up... thank your lucky stars and never make that mistake again. Then you need to stay calm and talk to her about what you did to make her mad enough to slap you in the first place. Tell her it bothers you that she hit you and that you won't allow her to hit you even if she's drunk but that next time, you're just going to step away from the situation until things cool down and she's sober again. It's not wrong to be upset that she hit you but that never gives you the right to hit her back even if it's just playful. Best of luck.
It depends, are you married to her, if not no big deal, if you are married to her shame on you because she's your lover not your friend. As for me, I don't think it wise to even think about it, you slap me, you'll limp for a week. You don't believe me, don't make a fool of yourself. Don't even entertain your curiosity, times are changing I'm a fit woman, no I'm more than fit, my hubby wanted it this way now he has to sleep with it. I would never lay a hand on my hubby and he would never give me lip enough if he knew what's good for him. Yeah, when you are the stronger you hold all the cards, I'm no bully my hubby should be so lucky.
You two both fucked this one up. Bzzzzzzt. Simon gives you a big red X.
You fucked this one up, by not IMMEDIATELY ending up in a horizontal position. In the bed, on the cold hard floor, who even fucking cares where. Slapping the shit out of each other, and fucking the shit out of each other. Cold icy hot fiery angry spiteful bite-yr-lips fuck-you-bitch fuck-you-asshole amazing multiorgasmic hatefuck sex.
Next time y'all get on that, y'hear me now?
Gonna be gooooooood.
Oh, and you just might discover some pretty deep shit about exactly who you are, sexually, too. As a collateral benefit.
My girlfriend slapped me, so I slapped her back, was I wrong?
Not in my opinion however if you're the type to support the slut double standard I see no validity to me in you complaining or saying it's not your fault since both double standards use the logic that since it's weaker for one sex to do something (gals to hurt guys/guys to get sex) that the other gender is slighted for the same behavior the opposite gender gets a pass on.
Why did I imagine something like
Girl slaps guy
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Guy gently taps girl
Oh mer gawd call the police fucking abusive boyfriend I don't want you in my life you scumbag😂😂😂😂
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Are you fuck. No offence mate but she sounds like a spoiled brat. That princess servant complexion some of them get. You want to be a doormat getting treated like shit keep letting her hit you. It's not manly letting somebody slap you about. You might think your tough taking it with a smile but it's not the physical pain thats the problem to the respect that's taking a beating. Everytime you let her do that she respects you less. I'll tell you your future. More slaps, more demands, treating you like a fool in company and eventually finding out she's cheating on you. But carry on being a hard man if that's what you like
Yes, you were wrong. You both were wrong but you were wrong in a way that makes the situation even more unforgettable and will eternally make you look like less of a man. No, it's not all your fault. She's the one who chose to get physical and she needs to take accountability for that. It's hard but sometimes you have to let other people be all the way wrong so that the situation doesn't bite you in the ass.
Both of you are equally wrong. One for starting it and the other one for further escalating the situation by slapping back.
Getting slapped by someone drunk is not a life-threatening situation.
No. I don't understand why when a girl slap a man all is good and when the guy slap a girl it's a big problem.
She slap you, you slap her. Now dump her.
What you're dating is the average woman. Unfortunately, very few of us are the exceptions that can continue fighting a man even if hit back. I can actually block upcoming hits too.
This is just stupid, sorry. Tell your girlfriend if she handle her alcohol then she doesn't need to drink, and that she needs to grow up!
Doesn't she know what don't do onto others what she doesn't want done onto her?
You were right to slap her back, smack her and tell her that you deserve even rights.
If she punches you however, don't go that far.
Girls dnt like guys who take abuse (as in getting hit) from anyone, she probably would think bad of you if u just took it. Maybe hold her hands next time, but never slap her hard.
You scooped down to her level. I would have broken up and simply never speak to her again.
What if she slaps you again another time, is this how the relationship going to be like, both of you staying and hitting each other?
Yes you were wrong.
She was wrong too.
Two wrongs don't make a right. (But three lefts do!)
Sexual equality at it's best, but the girls do not see it that way.
Physical violence, especially in anger is wrong at any time though.
Yes you were. No reason to hit a woman is justified. And in some states both of you go to jail. Get out of the relationship fast. From experience drunks are not good as a partner.
Yes it was wrong as a man you shouldn't hit a woman even if she hits you first because they are a lot more delicate than you
no one should hit anyone if i punch my guy he can defend him seelf screw this dont hit a girl bullshit i get what i give, you were both wrong, she over reacted
Duhhhhh. You don't know the pre-k term : "don't hit girls " and "girls first"
I think your girlfriend is very immature. It did not matter what you chose as a response.
No it's her fault for hitting you.
Next time try to defend yourself instead of hiting back.
"Do you think I was wrong?"
She hit you first so no. Legally, you both are wrong.
Other than that, make sure neither of you hit each other again.
Breaking up with her is generally a better idea than establishing a tit for tat abusive relationship. I've seen those, they ain't pretty...
no if she's big enough to slap you she big enough to get one back
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