Why does domination or submission turn you on?
58% Guys dominate 42% submit
Both actually I adapt and change according to the situation I am in and sometimes I purposely act one way or the other, like sometimes I'll just play the submissive role and then actually become dominant a certain time which actually shocks people quite a bit.
In regards to a relationship though I see it as a partnership I won't always be in control sometimes I'll let me partner be in control for a bit and then I'll take charge again. So I am I am not inherently one or the other really.
As for this part: Why does domination or submission turn you on?
Both do to be honest, sometimes I dominating and other times I rather enjoy pitting my dominance against my girls, there is nothing quite like dominance vs dominance. I view it almost like fighting, you wouldn't want a weak opponent, same goes for a partner you want them to be strong.
im passionate-rough in the bedroom so i always take lead and be dominant, if i met a dominant girl we would prob just always wrestle for dominance, it would be great :3
LOL somehow girls always win at wrestling xD
I'm guessing your asking about bedroom behavior? If so we are even steven. We both take turns on top each session cause we both need to be on top to O -lol. We both know what we want so we do what we have to to get there.
Not just in the bedroom... overall what do you prefer?
I guess, I'm the more dominate one.
Thanks for voting :)
but it wouldn't be by much at all. We both sit back in the areas we know less about and let the other person drive
Both we take turns. But usually more submissive. I love it when my man tells me what to do and takes charge.
You should be put on a leash :P
Proper woman
Don't know yet, but I can't picture myself being anything other than submissive
Submissive but I don't do anything degrading to myself. I am a queen after all.
So you're a queen huh :D I know what kind of submissive you mean...
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Do you mean sexually or just in the relationship? Either way I kind of go both ways with it. I'm pretty balanced leaning a little on the more submissive side I guess lol
cool beans :D
I wish you had added an option for both/taking turns, as that's what I like to do, depending on our moods.
I'm asking which role you prefer, not whether you're a dom/sub/switch
That's my point. I prefer both equally.
Nothing can be absolutely equal... you have to lean on one side more, albeit slightly
I'm really enjoying you telling me how I have to feel about something.
Assuming you mean relationship wise (not BDSM-wise) I was emotionally abused in the past and will never make that mistake again.
If you had said "equal" I'd have picked that.
A hidden submissive huh :D
No. Jeez. WTF?
Probably more submissive. I like her to tell me what to do to please her and be in control of my pleasure.
I can be both 😏😂 Well, maybe a bit more submissive 😁
haha that's cool!
I dated a women who is dominant and it's quite dysfunctional... women who are Alpha are a problem on many levels... I can't begin to explain other than to say.. dysfunctional.
do elaborate! I never thought about this...
My now ex, had a very feminine side, but as she got more and more comfortable with me she became the "Alpha" in our relationship... down to when we walk into a restaurant she'd walk up in front of me and put her name down for the waiting list (something I was used to doing my entire life)... or she'd have mixed reactions to my opening her door (again something I'd done my entire life)... it was one thing after another. I had to either re-program myself to be a woman (or submissive) or constantly butt heads with her over basic gender traditions... It took a partial toll on our relationship which had other problems and lead to our split... I do miss her, but I wish she wasn't such a head case.
I get what you mean mate. Trying to act out a role she choose for herself as if it was the latest vogue and she felt it empowered her. Or in a word pretencious. I get why you were put off by that. If it doesn't come natural don't attempt it. It's a disgusting trait in anybody and rubs you up the wrong way
I would tend to be the dominant partner - I just naturally do it , don't think about it.
cool beans
I'm submissive, that's why I love dominant girls :P
cool beans :D
I'm submissive, not in the BDSM way, but I like having the stuff done to me instead of doing stuff to the other person
Dominant, but I love girls that can have an aggressive side too
So you prefer dominating but are occasionally sub
Yes pretty much
A reporter asked a dog " how do you like sex " the dog say " ruff ruff " get it. 😋
hahaha
I'm versatile. I love taking control but I also love being taken control of. It fluctuates.
which side do you lean towards more?
Probably submissive.
Yes dominant, a preference only. But i don't have anyone right now, so i'm just going to grab a ropee and my pillow...
Submissive in social situations but I'm working on that. I'm dominant with the physical stuff.
I honestly have no idea. It really depends on the mood.
I'm neither, honestly. Taking turns is more fun.
but which side do you lean towards more?
I have no idea. I don't find myself gravitating to one role more than the other, to be honest. The whole dom/sub thing is not as cut and dry as you think it is.
it can't be absolutely equal. Nothing is perfect.
Do think about it! Ty :)
I never said it was equal but I am a switch. I just don't care enough to pay attention to who's in control more.
So which is more?
Like I said, I don't think about it.
I like being in control of his pleasure
TBF you girls are always in control of our pleasure :P
Whatever my partner needs me to be ^=^
oho... I see!
That's cute, I'm always submissive though, so yeah
I'm submissive in real life too.
Asian culture?
No.
I was raised with 2 older brothers, 1 older sister, a twin brother who always insisted that he's the "older" one, two younger sisters and a younger brother.
In a sense I'm the middle child so I got pushed around a lot as a kid. Also having older brothers didn't help. I was always the timid type so I'd do whatever they told me to do.
I grew up with my boyfriend's family because our parents were best friends as well. He has 4 older brothers who happen to be best friends with my older siblings and pretty much grew up as my own brothers... and voila. I have 6 older brothers, 1 older sister, one guy who was born 20 minutes before me and forever insists that he's older, one guy who's 1 month older than me and insists that he's older, and three little kids who demanded I was younger than them because I was short for my age. Overall, I got pushed around a lot and still do.
Being Asian has nothing to do with it, I grew up as an Aussie so that was a pretty stereotypical racist remark.
No thanks. That's what I have my boyfriend for.
Poor guy...
meh, I think it's you personality. I had older cousins too and all I did was get harder.
In mineq and @Joeman1252 I'm te dominant one
Do you put your finger in his mouth? :P
Not for long
@Joeman1252 really I love a guy who's dominant
Ill come at you like a dogggy
@Joeman1252 ok?
Sorry
@Joeman1252 ur fine 😘
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