I find middle eastern women very beautiful. I wouldn't before I was a Christian, it is too scary of a religion that doesn't "fit". Its less scary now that I've met Muslims personally, but it is really different. I'm Christian now so I know I wouldn't convert even if she was amazing. It is the wrong direction... the man is supposed to lead...
I think the Muslim religion doesn't fit well in our society for most guys. We are based on freedom, with "love" as a concept in our culture... hopefully in families... not that we get it, get it the right way.
Muslim is...
* God is your master, and you are the slave. You submit to him and do these 5 things... etc... Compare that to Christianity where you are loved by God, you are lost and he wants you back, he wants a relationship with you... Different concepts that dont' fit.
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I know a woman (not religious at the time) married a muslim man and it was terrible, she loved him, but was scared from it. She's christian now. Maybe it can work, but seems tough given the differences.
You may find someone "off the edge of society" who has rejected Catholic/Christianity due to how lame, cold, frustrating, confusing, etc.. it can be. Or maybe a very intellectual who rejects religion altogether... but won't convert.
No. What religion you are is dictated by your core beliefs. I believe in my soul that what I believe now is the right answer. If what I believe now is right, logically, everything else, which would include Islam, is not the right answer.
If I were to change my religion just in the hopes of attracting a girl, that suggests how little faith and God actually mean to me, and whether what I had believed was real was the truth, or Islam was the truth, it wouldn't matter, because by showing how little faith actually meant to me, I'd belong in hell.
hang out at islamic conventions and gatherings and you're bound to meet a convert. if not, you can take a trip to turkey or some other european muslim country to find a husband hahaha
my question is, what's the point of being with a guy who only converts to please you? where does that leave his relationship with god? if you are actually religious then you would see that its pointless to look for a non-muslim in hopes of convincing him.
if you are just religious by tradition and culture then you should forget what your parents have instilled in you and marry whoever you want.
So he has to convert but you converting to something else is out of the question? You know how hypocrite this sounds right?
You can't just convert a person. If you can't accept him for his religion (or lack of it), then you shouldn't be with him at all.
They do if they really like a girl or at least gives a thought. I have a white guy friend of mine who really likes me a lot and is thinking of converting into a Muslim.
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I have been in the situation and ask yourself the following questions:
- Why would he have to convert and not you convert for him? Its incredibly selfish.
- Is it disrespectful to convert just for a person rather than doing it genuniely? In my book it is.
- What do you really want? Clearly you are a muslim, yet want to date someone who hasn't grown up as a muslim. You might should ask yourself some essential questions about yourself and your religion and spirituality that are: What do you want and how are you? And what are things you have been teached to follow without questioning nor choosing them yourself?
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I wouldn't convert to any religion.
But you wouldn't convert to their religion? Pfft. Talking about true love and shit.
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I wish to ask this question. Why would it be him that must convert? Would you not consider becoming of his religious faith if you wanted to be with him?
Nope I don't believe in religion or God or any of that anymore, it's fine of you do, but it's not fo me. The whole thing about religion is very much man made to me.
No I would never convert to another religion because I findine unfulfilling or anything, but again I'm not religious.
Sure, three wives why not? the head banging would get on my nerves after a while though. LOL. Seriously, it'll never happen. Most "white" guys are agnostic or atheist so they're not going to get religion for you. The ones that aren't are Christian so they're unlikely to convert. The smattering of crazys that are left are just that - crazy. There's white Muslims, marry one of them. What's the difference if they're white anyway?
no. I would have absolutely no problem dating a Muslim girl, but I wouldn't change my religious beliefs for her. I'm atheist and that will never change and I'm not gonna pretend anything else for her. Religion doesn't have to be a big part of a relationship. I'd respect her views and support her in it, but I won't convert to something I don't believe in.
why don't YOU convert? You're the one who wants THEM!
Maybe then you'd actually get the guy you like - not the one you're supposed to settle with! ;)
i belive in god but if i am honest nope i can't follow a bunch of rules, i mean i would be lying to myself internally and i could not morally do that.
On a side note i have no problem with other people religious views but if she really really loved me she would not force me to change those types of views just to be with her
Haha, no, never. I want to have nothing to do with Islam, and I definitely wouldn't "genuinely want to be with" an Islamist either. And yes, it's because of her "religion".
Most white men think Christianity is annoying. Islam with getting up at sunrise every day and no alcohol is not gonna do well with them. You're out of luck
yeah you might be shit out of luck. the odds aren't with you unless you're really hot.
A man has to have a code. Would you even want a man that would loosely slip from his own code? For a man that will not even stand up for himself, will surely not stand up for you or any children you have together.
I would date and marry a Muslim girl, but I would die, sword in hand, as a Templar Knight for Christendom before I EVER abandoned my religion and convert.
In short, no. I would die brutally before even pretending to convert.
No i wouldn't, and it wouldn't be a good idea anyway. If i honestlu believe in another religion or i honestly don't have a religion, converting wouldn't be a honest behaviour, not really a solid ground to build a relationship.
No I wouldn't, if we loved each other enough our religions being different matter as we would love each other enough to accept and respect each others religion.
No, I would not convert to Islam. I have to BELIEVE in something in order to convert.
Plus I heard Muslims have this one holiday where they have to slaughter a GOAT!
Only if she stopped wearin' dat ridiculous hijab which makes her look ugly like hell... I never understood why a chick wants to uglify herself in dat way,...
You don't have to marry someone of the same religion.
No. my beliefs are important I me. I respect the beliefs of my partner, but conversion will not happen.
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