Who should say I love you first? The man? or the woman?

This is the dilemma I am faced with! WHO SHOULD SAY THAT LITTLE FOUR LETTER WORD FIRST? The guy I have been dating for 3 months asked me if I loved... Show More

Updates:
So the next day to after this situation it got a bit awkward when we were together. He seemed cold and distant. I starting to think he's reevaluating the whole relationship. I'm scared that he's gonna cut me loose