This is the dilemma I am faced with! WHO SHOULD SAY THAT LITTLE FOUR LETTER WORD FIRST? The guy I have been dating for 3 months asked me if I loved him...I wanted to say yes but didn't. I told him I cared a lot about him ...If he does love me or feel this way why ask me first why not have some... Show More
Who should say I love you first? The man? or the woman?
What Guys Said
Saying "I love you" has a lot of baggage for some guys.
You should have said 'Yes!"
That "I care a lot about you" might have triggered a rejection reaction. And rejection is by far the most damaging to a guy. He put a lot on the line to even ask you if you loved him. What if you said "no". That might destroy the relationship right there.
Um...call him and tell you that you love him? It'll mean worlds to him.
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