OK my boyfriend and are a very close we've been best friends for 10years, and have been dating now for 4 years. We have talked about getting married after college, and we are very serious. We've been in a long distance relationship for almost a year now. This spring break he told me he didn't have service and was busy. I haven't seen him in 4 weeks so not hearing from in a week was really hard. Then I see him at the mall in town and he just froze he looked sad. I was so upset I ran off crying, he later sent me a msg saying he was sorry but is ignoring me now. I have a hard time believing it's over so why is he ignoring me. I feel like it's because he feels bad and can't hear how much he's hurt me. What should I do should I just wait for him to talk to me, or should we break up? I just can't imagine that he doesn't want to be together when a week before he was talking about proposing.
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Ok well tomorrow will be a weeks since this happened and as of now he has made no effort to contact me. I've stopped almost all communication I send him a text or two at night telling him I miss and love him and to please talk.
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It's been 2 weeks since he's talked to me, I've stopped calling and texting. I told him if he still loves me then to tell me that I'll be waiting for him. That's all I can do I feel like I lost the love of my life.
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He left me :'( I never once thought we would ever break up, he hasn't given me a reason yet I think he knows if he sees me it won't be for long.
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