Boyfriend not chivalrous, should I be concerned?

Anonymous
He is great, but he has very little chivalry. (he is also in a wheelchair if that is relevant but im pretty sure even if he wasn't in a wheelchair things would be the same)
1. He asks me to come to his place and when I walk back to my place he doesn't offer to walk me back and never takes me to the bus stop.
2. When it's cold and he has a jacket but I don't, he doesn't even offer me his jacket.
3. He never gets worried when I walk back home at night from the library etc. no text, call, or asking if I got home safe etc.
4. We pay about an equal amount when we go out (this is fine except its been more like 60% me 40% him lately.)

Here are the things my boyfriend does for me that shows me that he loves me.

1. he used to never get his hair cut super short cause he doesn't like it that short, but ever since I told him I like short hair on men he gets buzz cuts before he sees me (we're doing long distance).

2. He's had facebook for about a decade and has never posted a picture of his face as a profiel picture and of course never had a girlfriend in his profiel picture. He changed his profile picture into one of us for the very first time.

3. He calls me every night and always makes time to talk to me if I need him.

4. introduces me to his friends and family.

5. He makes me his phone background.

6. He doesn't talk to other girls and never locks his phone. He lets me use it too lol

so the question is, should I end it with him? is he a bad boyfriend/ good boyfriend?
yes, these are things that show he doesn't love you that much
no, these aren't things to worry about
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Boyfriend not chivalrous, should I be concerned?
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