People often say that people pair up with those that are like minded, and that the good girl pairs up with the good guy and party girl with party guy etc. However, this is an ideal concept and the world is anything but ideal. The reality is that people don't often pair up with those of like minded. And in the case of women being good or bad really doesn't hold much weight when it comes to their attraction towards men. What takes paramount is looks, money and status.
So your a good man. However, you are born average looks and you don't have high social status or wealth. Overall around your time in your early -mid 20's you won't get a good woman to look at you. The reason is because the good woman would be chased by and/or pursue after better looking men, rich men and/or more popular men than you for relationships and looks (hypergamy). So as a good man your left out with a choice of continuing the course with a lack of love or switching from going after decent women for girlfriends and target lower quality women.
So should good men who are having a hard time getting the good, woman and switch to lower quality women for love?
Example: Rather than going for a girl who is nice, decent, doesn't sleep around and come from a good family with morals and values maybe start being more open to date a girl who is a stripper and has loose morals and values on things. Tends to be very sexually open also.
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Should decent good men settle for lower quality women if they can't get a good woman to be with them?
No, unfortunately you are being tempted to do so moreso than ever today with glorification of the destruction of monogamy. Girls kissing girls, flings, mindless hookups, no courting or real dating, partys, drugs and alcohol, shaming, PC is a big one, kids without marriage, marriage without love, reduction of gender divide, all this crap to make you feel like investing time and emotion in a girl is wasted. It's total bull s***. And the girls are acting more masculine because of it. Like watching another undersized guy look up to another guy and call him small. Kind of sickening and cringeworty really.
From what I seen it is mostly strippers and women who sleep around a lot who have the unreasonable standards. .
See. I am like you I see the qulity of a person in how nice they are. Don't sleep around. And the things you listed. Not just looks (not that looks don't matter but you get what I mean) and money and social status which is what a lot of people define as a quality woman
Wow. You sound a lot more like a guy who is bitter af and because of this, likely following one or two rejections or non-reciprocated interest, has thrown out any of your previously held standards in respect to women and now feel like it's your mission to advocate for how all men should go for more promiscuous women. You sound nothing like a 'good guy'.
What is your definition of a decent man? What do you considered a high quality woman?
I would hope it means someone that's faithful, hard-working and family-oriented... applied equally to both genders.
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I wouldn't just settle. Keep going until you find the one that is a great match for you. There are so many people on earth, if there are those sub par, then move on until someone more compatible shows up.
I think rather than lowering your standards, take the hard path of working on yourself. One day it will be all worth it, better than wasting time, energy, money on unsatisfactory relationships.
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