I'm black and my ex who's white dropped the "N" bomb, what to do? (Page 2)
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There isn't anything inherently wrong with the word. You are way too sensitive.
Just don't contact him anymore. He is an idiot and you are not going to change him with just a message. Leave it be.
Thanks, I don't intend on changing him, maybe more just trying to make him realize what an idiot he'd been and maybe what other people think of what he has to say... but I'd rather not let him know it bothered me THAT much..
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Whatver...dude ...names are names...sticks and stone make break my bones but words can never hurt me. you can only be offended by namecalling if you allow yourself.
Ive been called cracker and every other cuss word in the book...I laugh its just a name. People just like to scream race...seriously get over it...
You don't have to answer to him. I don't recommend you do since you told him it bothered you and he essentially blew you off; to that end it's a done deal insofar as the conflict should go.
Yeah, after he told me all that, he continued the conversation as if I still wanted to talk to him so I just ignored him. It's done to me, but thanks for your input :)
its a word so get over it if he called you a bitch playing around would it be a big deal no it wouldn't so get over it the word means a dumb ignorant person if that is not you then why would it hurt you especially if he was playin yea slaves were called niggers well they were dumb ignorant people they had no schooling so what else would you expect I would understand not saying it to a former slave but I think they are all dead so lets move on its old news
I think just move on .. My ex boyfriend who was white dropped the N word to but I didn't care as much because it wasn't toward me. But still he should have said sorry didn't mean to affend you but ya move on.
forget the guy. he's such a jerk. I am a halfie, but still if anyone says anything rude about my Asian part, I'll will confront them on it right away. one of my ex boyfriends was like that too. p*ssed me off so much. He's garbage.
he may not be racist as in a KKK member but he may have some subconscious racist views. no offense but a lot of white people do. I mean look at some of these comments! If messaging would make you feel better do it, but if you think you're going to get through to him...dont bother.
Ok, he is dating a black girl and dropping "N" bomb like it does not mean anything? I wouldn't say he is racist. Maybe he is a "Wigga"?
How does he dress? Like a rapper? MAlibu's Most Wanted?
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Drop him absolutely, like a rock into the sea... he's an ex and apparently a jerk, there's no reason to talk to him or write to him, and if you ignore him eventually he'll go away.
Would you care as much if he was black and said it? Yeah its a bad word but I guarantee that every white person has used it at some point whether they're racist or not.
hahaha das funny lol but if he dint mean it ina bad way you shouldnt care nigga is only offensive if you think it is nd I'm black too nd I don't give a sh*t haha hope I helped
I agree this fag is an ex. Forget what he says, he is probably angry at himself cause he lost you.
Drop an A-bomb on his house. Evacuate anyone else in a 40 mile radius. Don't bother air-bursting it. As for where to obtain an A-bomb, Google some plans and then start enriching all the Uranium you can find or perhaps...ebay!
Say to him only white trash talks that way. The truth is no one would talk that way if he wasn't. He needs to clean up his thoughts and he might get the picchure since it will hurt his feeling as deep as it hurt yours...
well luckily you're not with him anymore. it ain't a word to be used by anyone
Ohhhhhhhh here we go again, you need to call Rev Jesse Jackson right away, get him on the phone asap, now! Then you need to sue the white man, aka white devil, and then you need to complain to everyone you know about how racist he is.
Uhhhh no. nice job trying to be funny though. next time just don't waste my time mr anonymous comedian of the day.
To late I call the Reverend for her and NAACP, they looking for that white boy right now.
Well did you call him yet, if not call him now, otherwise shut up and stop over reacting to nothing, if it was so bad then why is it that every rap song, rapper, or gangster says that word, and they're black
I don't listen to rap and neither do I condone the word being in the songs. I personally never use the word. I just don't like it and I'm not trying to stop people from using it, I just don't have the time nor patience but it's the RESPECT level I am referring to in this situation.
He was hurt acted out, emotional response inappropriate, move on ...
He might not have been meaning it in a derogetory way, but he should have enough respect for you to avoid using words like those around you.
well if you were going out with someone black you wouldn't have to worry about this now would you? trader...