It's women who take kindness as weakness. When a man acts kind a woman considers him weak hence many men not wanting to cry in front of women or show their emotional side, which stems the stereotype men are weak.
Men always like kindness and appreciate it. Hence, male love a woman who is kind. it boost her attraction in his eyes. A woman on the other hand perceive kindness as weakness.
Thus, they are not attracted to nice guys.
Some men suck and some women suck. We both have the same problems to deal with in terms of infidelity and lying. To answer your question yes depending on the man life and dating are too complicated. Be who you are meant to be at your core don't let any asshole interrupt your shine, we all make mistakes in dating. Is there someone on your radar?
only a coward would take it that way. and it its that they'd believe it they'd just act like they believed it to try to humiliate you bc they are humiliated themselves.
kindness takes courage. its strength that you're using to help support other people beyond yourself. .. its easy to be pissy and better and jaded. its selfish and you dont have to be strong for anyone.
He will most likely take you for granted. You dont have to be mean, just dont say yes all the time, and focus on yourself too.
It depends on the man, I doubt all men have that view towards kindness
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u I can only speak for myself. I value those qualities in a woman.
Let use some logic here. Do men create hate campaigns saying that NICE WOMEN are monsters? No.
Do women create hate campaigns saying that NICE GUYS are monsters? Yes.
Well there is your answer.
Men like kind women and value kindness.
Women think kindness is a weakness and not attracted to it.
Kindness is a strength in my mind. We need more people who can be kind in this world and it takes a lot of strength to be kind to not only those you know but those you don't. especially if they are being jerks.
People in general do. It's not gender segregated. I suppose it's how you apply it. I think I'm a good person once you get to know me but I'm not out kissing people's asses. Quite the opposite.
They take kindness for weakness when it comes to a point where it exposes your vulnerability. Be kind, but don't give the guy (or anyone) numerous second chances.
No, it's not true. I prefer to be with a woman who does all does things than one who seems not to care.
No, men don't think that way. I think women do judging from anecdotal experience.
Replace men with WOMEN and you have the correct answer.
MEN SHOWING KINDNESS TO WOMEN CAUSES HER TO THINK HE IS WEAK AND HENCE SHE IS NOT ATTRACTED TO HIM.
MEN APPRECIATE KINDNESS FROM WOMEN AND PEOPLE/
i sure as heck don't think being kind is a sign of weakness
I can plead guilty on this charge. Obviously you need to give out complaments when its earned, but to be constantly giving them out like candy I dont like at all and it just gets on my nerves. they just become empty.
This is true to an extent, but not too much with women, more with each other. It's why male friends aren't very complimentary of each other
I don't know... but the kindness you are talking about, is not weakness and is appreciated
“True courage is about knowing not when to take a life, but when to spare one.”
I kind everyone takes kindness for weakness and tried to take advantage of you.
No. That's women projecting yet AGAIN.
No, only the bad ones.
My mother sure does 😶
This is a people thing, not a male thing
I think bout genders do, but more so women.
Some do, and women also do this.
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