He won't have sex with me (last time was in December) and he keeps telling me he wants a baby but won't say when -- it's always "it's not the right time". I'm horribly afraid that he's just controlling me and I don't even know it.
He gets so jealous when I talk about other guys (my boss, coworkers, etc...) and often says things like "who are you dressing up for", when I'm just trying to dress professionally for work.
I feel completely disrespected all the time because he refuses to do anything I ask. He won't even throw away crumpled up, used paper towel or Kleenex. He just leaves them on the counter. He also won't ever go to bed when I want to, blares music, leaves the lights on till 1 am, regularly.
I'm contemplating leaving but I can't really make it on my own. I just can't stand this anymore. Am I wrong? Is this treatment justified because he pays all the bills? He doesn't treat me like a partner, just an object.
Your advice would be appreciated. Thank you!
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