Well, carrying around a Dictaphone with me typically helped. Bring it out, tell them what it is and that you're recording their words for posterity. The vast majority of girls will then immediately either shut up, start flinging insults at you (with resorting to personal insults meaning that they've conceded defeat, losing the argument by default by doing so), or try to physically assault you in order to destroy the recording device (which also effectively amounts to an instant concession of defeat in an argument). If they're deluded and hypocritical enough to bring up stuff when they themselves are routinely guilty of far worse, I don't hold back for the sake of 'being nice' or 'being a gentleman' any more- if I'm talking to a grown woman, over the age of 18, then I'm not going to humor her when she acts like a spoiled entitled little brat, screaming and shouting "well, I SAY that God created the earth 10,000 years ago, because I'M ALWAYS RIGHT, so THERE!" If something isn't worth arguing, I won't bother in the first place. But if someone comes over to me and tries to pick an argument with me, it doesn't matter whether that person's male or female, I'm going to win that argument, no matter what.
Arguing with a girl is similar to arguing with anyone else. You don't win. except on the occasion that you can both prove you were right and it's not that important to the person arguing.
If they feel strongly enough even absolute proof they are wrong will be ignored.
lol. As a girl I've meet men and women who do that but more girls. And that drives me insane. I just say" Btch shut up". Or you can just leave her sitting there created these insane ideas in her head. Best thing to do is walk away.
By arguing respectfully... actually acknowledging her feelings and talking about your own and figuring out what the real issue is instead of just brushing everything she says off as her being emotional or irrational.
Notice how everything the guy says in the comic is an imperative statement? After he asks her if she wants to go to the gym, he keeps telling her what to do. He's not really empathizing, and he could try asking her questions to turn it around.
But girls like empathy towards them. He should've just finished the "No, I didn't mean to..." by saying "No, I didn't mean it like that. I just wanted to have your company because I like spending time with you", etc., etc. Life isn't a movie, you don't have to cancel your sentences just to move the plot and character development along.
To win an argument against a girl. 1st: Be alone with her.(She can try to convice other people to support her, women get more support in discussions than men, cause retarded white knights...) 2nd:Never go back on your word, and dont say sorry. If you really think that what you are saying is right. 3rd:Stay calm, if u get pissed she will say that you are agressive, i been in tons of arguments with girls and they almost scream at me and then when i raise my voice and speak the truth, she says you are agressive and you endup saying sorry. 4th:If she starts talking about the past and changing the subject you warn her of her attitude and if she does not change end the conversasion.
The only real way to "win" an argument, at least from a relationship standpoint is for both people to understand whatever the other person says has their personal emotions in mind. If you come at them with vitriol. You can be right. But you'll lose in the long run. An argument needs to have a purpose in order for a win to be possible. And the purpose has to be more than, "I'm mad" or "i feel like shit so im going to make you feel like shit".
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Haha those pics up above are spot on mate!!
But you don't. There is no winning, with argument with a girl you're in a relationship with. It's lose ( you argue your point and win) Or lose (you accept that winning isn't worth it and take the hit).
These are your only options. Otherwise, prepare for the silent treatment or sarcasm for the next few days, weeks, or if you're like my girlfriend ( MONTHS). 😔.
Yes simply dont argue with them. Let thrm have the last word if they want it so badly, then afterward distance yourself and thry will ask themselves why you did that and maybe then they are interested in a mature conversation.
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