Do you think it is really hard to find a guy who could easily make an inexperience girl to feel comfortable to try things with him?
Sorry if the question isn't clear to understand..
I wanted to ask if it is not easy for a guy to make an inexperience girl (who feels awkward or shy if she's alone with someone she likes in a room) feel comfortable and encouraged to try things with him.
In younger age like in late teens or early 20s, maybe men and women both feel awkward in a way... and hard to break the ice, but I thought it would get easier in 30s and it would be easier for me to be with a guy who could guide me and make me feel comfortable and brave enough to try things with him and on him ;) but it hasn't been easy... my dates left me scars on my self confidence and even if i've been trying really hard it hasn't been easy to be with someone..
maybe.. me being an old virgin makes guys feel uncomfortable and awkard? :(
if you were with someone inexperienced, or someone who you just starts dating (someone new), would it be hard for you to make her feel comfortable?
like one time a guy just jumped on me right away as soon as I got his place it was somewhat scary and uncomfortable becuase there was no conversation simply just wet kisses all over my face as soon as I opened the door... which made me extremely uncomfortable and I left. :/
and the other time with another guy I was invited to his place and there was only awkward silence and i left... I think they both actually tried hard to make me feel comfortable.. but it didn't work :(
i'm still new to this dating.. but i'm not sure it would be always like this uncomfortable with a guy :/
I also try to brighten the moood or try to relax more without thinking too much.. but I was wondering if it is normally hard for a guy to make their partner to feel comfortable enough when they first enter the relationship or when they are with someone who isn't that experience?
Sorry if the question isn't clear to understand..
I wanted to ask if it is not easy for a guy to make an inexperience girl (who feels awkward or shy if she's alone with someone she likes in a room) feel comfortable and encouraged to try things with him.
In younger age like in late teens or early 20s, maybe men and women both feel awkward in a way... and hard to break the ice, but I thought it would get easier in 30s and it would be easier for me to be with a guy who could guide me and make me feel comfortable and brave enough to try things with him and on him ;) but it hasn't been easy... my dates left me scars on my self confidence and even if i've been trying really hard it hasn't been easy to be with someone..
maybe.. me being an old virgin makes guys feel uncomfortable and awkard? :(
if you were with someone inexperienced, or someone who you just starts dating (someone new), would it be hard for you to make her feel comfortable?
like one time a guy just jumped on me right away as soon as I got his place it was somewhat scary and uncomfortable becuase there was no conversation simply just wet kisses all over my face as soon as I opened the door... which made me extremely uncomfortable and I left. :/
and the other time with another guy I was invited to his place and there was only awkward silence and i left... I think they both actually tried hard to make me feel comfortable.. but it didn't work :(
i'm still new to this dating.. but i'm not sure it would be always like this uncomfortable with a guy :/
I also try to brighten the moood or try to relax more without thinking too much.. but I was wondering if it is normally hard for a guy to make their partner to feel comfortable enough when they first enter the relationship or when they are with someone who isn't that experience?
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