This past weekend, me and my boyfriend (of two years) were at a party. He was outside with a group of his guy friends talking and drinking. I was inside socializing and eventually came out for some fresh air. I don't think he realized I had come out because I was off a little distance but close enough to where I could hear what they were saying. That's when I heard his friends mention me and my sisters (I have one other) and I heard them saying how hot they were. Then, I heard my boyfriend say my younger sister was definitely the hottest. Like, not just in a sentence. Like saying she looked like a Victoria secret model. I am so hurt. I get it. She's hot. And I understand that guys will think people are prettier than me. But to actually hear it from someone you love and live with? I told him the next day and he tried to play it off like he didn't remember. Then he said he was drunk and he was sorry. I can barely look at my boyfriend now without thinking what he said. I know he loves me and he tells me I'm beautiful all the time but I'm just not sure how to work through this. I don't know what to do!
My boyfriend said my sister is hotter than me? What should I do?
This past weekend, me and my boyfriend (of two years) were at a party. He was outside with a group of his guy friends talking and drinking. I was inside socializing and eventually came out for some fresh air. I don't think he realized I had come out because I was off a little distance but close enough to where I could hear what they were saying. That's when I heard his friends mention me and my sisters (I have one other) and I heard them saying how hot they were. Then, I heard my boyfriend say my younger sister was definitely the hottest. Like, not just in a sentence. Like saying she looked like a Victoria secret model. I am so hurt. I get it. She's hot. And I understand that guys will think people are prettier than me. But to actually hear it from someone you love and live with? I told him the next day and he tried to play it off like he didn't remember. Then he said he was drunk and he was sorry. I can barely look at my boyfriend now without thinking what he said. I know he loves me and he tells me I'm beautiful all the time but I'm just not sure how to work through this. I don't know what to do!
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