I'm pregnant and my boyfriend won't get a job. I don't know what to do?

[Mds_16]

Me & my boyfriend been together 3 years. I've always taken care of him. I made all the money, took us on trips, bought nice cars, paid the rent + all bills, etc. I admit I was a bikini dancer & made super great money. Well now I'm almost 6 mths prego. I stopped working & have been going to school & I'm hoping to get this job at the hospital soon. I passed the test so I'm waiting for the interview now. I couldn't work because I'm commuting for school. So I'm at my family's during the week & go back home (2 hrs away) on the weekends + I have a class on sundays to get my license back. I can't drive until I get my license back which in 2 mths. it makes me so sad that he won't get a job... our rent is a cheap & he's selling drugs to pay it but its not making enough $. He's been super late every time. He complains about everything & makes me feel like it's my fault & tells me I need to get a job. he's barely on his 3rd month of paying rent because I found out I was prego at 2 1/2 mths & still had some $ left over to pay bills. So he's only paid 2 mths so far & he's complaining! He yells at me if I give him advice on getting a job or tell him to not spend $ on unnecessary things. he FLIPS out. He threw our coffee table & pushed my face & choked me. I just don't know what to do anymore :(. It just hurts me that I've done so much for him & all I'm asking for is help til I get hired at the hospital or until I have the baby... that's all I'm asking for. Y can't he just man up & make me feel like he WANTS to take care of me until our daughter is here? It's like I'm a burden after all I've done for him :( He says he loves me & wants to be with me but he acts high & mighty because he's "paying" the bills now? As if I wasn't the one doing it for 3 years. It doesn't even make sense because he's not making enough $. He'll sell a $40 sac which is NOT A LOT OF MONEY $ then acts like he deserves to go to the bar & come home at 3 or 4am like he's working sooo hard. :(

[MadeInAmerica]

Seem like you found yourself a real winner there.

He was a broke loser from the start and you spoiled him to be even more of a bum. He won't ever be how you want. The dick must be hella good for you to just want support for 9 months then you will go back to spoiling him with money, paid bills and pussy. Amazing.

Your boyfriend

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[FakeName123]

He is a loser and you supported him being a loser. And now you got pregnant by that loser and demand he changes when he didn't prior.

Frankly, this is on you. You should have never sticked nor get pregnant by him.

Protip: You can't change people. People can only change themselves.

[zombiebabe]

sorry but sounds like he feels annoyed to be the one to pay for bills now

[JohnDoe3000]

What did you expect? He's a drug dealer, spends all night drinking, and mooched off you for 3 years. Did you really think he was going to turn into a responsible father?

[BeastRB]

Your boyfriend sounds like an A1 piece of shit. If I were you I'd tell him to get his shit together or get the fuck out of your life. And if he touches you again call the police.

[Mbored92]

HE is just a prick, but honestly you should have realised that a lot earlier in your relationship, he is just using you

[TheFlak38]

Suffer the consequences of your bad decisions.

[Anonymous]

I don't know haha