I'm really confused by this guy I've been hooking up with. We first met on tinder and we met up, drank, and had sex. Never DTRed or even hinted at anything like that but I assumed it was just a friends with benefits situation. We have really different schedules so we meet as much as possible which is probably once every week or two and I usually go over and stay the night. The thing he does that confuses me is that even if sex isn't involved, he'll want to hold my hand cuddle, kiss me on the cheeks, forehead, put his head on my lap, etc. all on his own. I've never initiated anything. He also refuses to let me leave after sex, always insists that I stay the night. We've gone out to dinner together/done stuff together without anything happening afterwards and he got me presents after he took a trip overseas. We text multiple times throughout the day and it's not to set up our next meetup either. Am I thinking too much or does he want something more?
friends with benefits - holding hands, cuddling: does he want more?
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