He could be depressed as the guys are saying. People do weird and destructive things when they're depressed. That's still no excuse to play woth your feelings, or disregard them, which is at least what he's doing. I'm sorry to say this, but he could have also met someone else or not want to be tied down to just you. He could have commitment issues. Men aren't as open with emotions as women are, I get that, but it sounds to me like you've already been in vulnerable positions. The less he communicates, the more I'm inclined to believe he's hiding something.
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I really feel you need to have your gaurd up just for your own sake darling. I think if someone likes you whether it is 4/5/6 months you would know by that time to make it official. For a guy to say 'baby steps' I think he is uncertain or confused. If I like someone and they make me happy I will easily commit I think most people would. I have to admit something the only reason I have ever said 'baby steps' is because I was uncertain on my feelings and felt I needed time which means I was confused. Please keep your gaurd up girl.
Fuck his head wtf is going on in yours? He says he's confused and wants to be alone and you stay with him? Wtf is wrong with you? Your response should be "well when you're no longer confused and want me as a girlfriend let me know IF I'm still single" and get on with your life. He's not ever going to want you the way you want him to. Stop being pathetic.
Sounds like a lot has happened to you both. He may just be depressed. When people are depressed they mite says things they don't mean and hurt people they love. The same with drinking.
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my dear friend, I root want you to check his heart and soul and mind as he seems to be under some kind of pressure and heavy tension from another source.
All of that would be very painful and I don't think I could overcome a woman doing that to me.
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