For guys and girls, what does the opposite sex need to do in bed for they to be considered 'good'?
Girls, what makes guys good in bed? Guys, what makes girls good in bed?
Bottom line, passion and attraction really matter! And variation. Before I ever kissed my boyfriend... it was just there. When he asked if he could kiss me I was all too willing and it was every bit as good as either of us could have hoped. Now we can be soft and sweet or hot and heavy but it's the passion that's there every time. I think really it's about both really being able to lose yourself in the pleasure and let go.
Forget trying to do tricks and gimmicks to be 'good'... just get into it! Explore her feverishly, kiss her, nibble her, grab her hair, bite her ears, lick her thighs. And just... go with it and silently take note of every touch that makes her twitch, sigh, or moan.
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Well lol :-D here are few points:
He can last long maybe at least 30 minutes
He has the correct rhythm to give orgasms through penetration alone
When the vagina is dry he does foreplay
Moans during sex and shows he's enjoying it too
Changes positions to make things exciting
Can be dominant when needed
Can be loving when needed
Lots of affection maybe compliments or kisses, strokes - showing his love
Cuddles when session ends
Can play out fantasies
Talking during sex... hearing his voice is always nice
If he orgasms before he tries to please after through foreplay
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I think that the guy needs to actually be interested in what the girl wants. Same goes for the girl, although, in my opinion all girls think about is what the guy is going to like. Foreplay is important. They have to be a good kisser because making out is one of the greatest turn-ons out there. Other than that, they just need to be attentive and care about something other than themselves getting off.
violence, I am surprised that is true but I can not still.
And doubt is that a lover I love? beyond it is so pain
I am tired.
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that she joins me in the act & put some effort in satisfying me also 😋😜
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He should make the foreplay last long, at least for 30 minutes. He should really want it, he should be passionate about sex. He should be clean and shave his hair, he should not only think of himself, but also feeding the female's apetite.
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Actually caring about the other person enjoying their self/getting off, not just them (personal side note, due to selfishness, I have yet to actually "orgasm". It's depressing.
Chemistry.
Foreplay.
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Multiple orgasms! Discovered this ability by accident. My boyfriend at the time, would stay inside me after we came while we caught our breath and just came down. Even tho, he wasn't still hard my parts were still super sensitive and tingly, I couldn't help but move my hips against him... and before long O #2 came roaring along. Sometimes O #2 was better than the 1st go. **sighs
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I'm a fan of the little things it's all in the details. Don't forget that foreplay is just as important as the real thing and for me is just as fun and makes the whole experience better and more personal.
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Stamina and passion. It makes the experience soo memorable when my boyfriend wrapped his arms around me and kisses my neck
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making you feel confident, sexy and relaxed. talking dirty and making a bit of noise to show they're enjoying it
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I personally like a dominant guy, just my opinion, when they're controlling but still kind, and when they're controlling outside of the bedroom it's really a turn off, or really shy men in bed are really good because they are a lot more gentle
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Pay attention to what I like, do the things I like, try or make me cum.
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Willingness to try new things, enthusiasm and being good at oral.
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Pay attention to how the other person reacts to what you're doing so that you learn what's best for them.
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Considering your satisfaction over them chasing orgasm
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Being extra dominant and responding properly to all my challenges.
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Somebody that you sinc a rhythm with... someone just pounding like a jackhammer is oh so bad-lol.
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Attraction to him, good communication, stamina, rhythym and a sense of fun.
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He needs to have those hip motions so he can pound me good
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Sexual chemistry and foreplay.
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Responding to my needs
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I don't know it.
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I don't know.
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i dont know 😵
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