A) they were flirty ie hi babe, cutie etc.. followed by mundane conversation
B) It was hidden from me... private emails and facebook.
C) I found everything on my own. Nothing was volunteered even when asked.
He denies flirting but admits inappropriate language. He claims he always thought I was fine with this since I didn't say anthing before. Apparently, he believed I was always supposed monitor his activities. But admits he should have told me. He only admits to what I saw and nothing more. When I asked why I had to find out in pieces he auctually said, "how am I supposed to remember everything I did?". He maintains that they were only friends and never met. But says that he was foolish for using poor language and maintains that his intentions were pure. I found 12 different girls. It's clear that I only have a piece of the puzzle. He basically said that I'm overreacting and told me he's telling the truth and let it go. I did not find any evidence of them meeting up and he denies ever cheating (of course). I've really been obsessing over this. Am I making a mountain out of a mullhill? Is it possible he believes this bs? How do I get answers?
I should mention other than this we never had any issues and we have a little girl who we love to bits.
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