Try not to think of it as, she thinks too much. See it for what it is, and talk it through before an argument starts. It sounds like she is questioning the trust between you, which you both are responsible for building and nurturing. That could be either our both of your fault, who knows. Saying she thinks too much, you are immediately dismissing her feelings and the argument starts, which is usually not the best way to communicate. You signed up to be with her, so unless you want to back out, you're gonna have to learn to figure out why her very real to feelings are in conflict here. If you aren't questioning her, then apparently she's doing something right. It could be any number of reasons why she is not feeling reassured, talk it at. Step one, don't ever say she is thinking too much, and run with WE aren't communicating enough. Good luck
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Take her in your arms and tell her how much you love her and give her a loving and long kiss. Make her feel secure in your relationship.
I thinks its so so great of you that you actually worry about this and are willing to to do something about it.
To your question: Make lots of positive memories together, go out in nature, camping, to museums, swimming, whatever and take pics as a souvenir. And when she is feeling down you can send her a pic with a cute message and remind her of those nice moments you two shared together.
Your girlfriend sounds like me and this helped me every time.
Good luck!
Try to get her to go out with friends during that day or find a hobby to keep her busy. Sometimes people overthink things because they have nothing to keep their mind busy so they think about the past which unfortunately she thinks about the bad instead of the good.
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Well if she starts arguments then the real question is how to stop her from being emotionally abusive
Have you directly apologized for anything?
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