Okay so I got out of a year and a half relationship in August, and In November I started talking to an old high school friend. I ended up kinda liking this guy and when I came over for the first time I met his older brother. I'm 19 and so is the younger brother; the older brother is 26. The younger brother ended up playing video games all night and ignored me, so the older one and I talked and looked at tinder (I ended up falling asleep on his shoulded). Around 1 the younger brother wakes me up to ask if I need to go home, I say yes and he walks me to my car. We talk and end up making out and then we fool around (we never had sex, except for oral). The younger brother isn't over his ex, so he feelshould like shit for fooling around and cries. He kinda quit talking to me, I had to put fourth all the effort to conversate. At this point I'm friends with both. Come new year I talk to the younger brother, he says he has no feelings for me. I realize I need to drop one of the brothers if I want a chance with either. The older brother is always messaging me and inviting me to do things. For example my 19th birthday, I bought tickets to see the nutcracker ballet and invite the younger one. He asks the day before if he can bring another friend who is a girl, I of course say yes. The night comes and he texts me says she can't come, so he's not coming about 2 hours before the show starts. I ended up not going and later the older brother texts me and invites me out to the movies (first kiss with older brother occurs). I think I like both at that point. (The ballet was December.) Now older brother is always inviting me over and to go do things with them.. last time I went over there I ended up having sex with older brother while younger brother dropped off a friend. Younger brother has recently messaged me saying he feels awkward seeing me over all the time and asks if I'm dating his brother. I don't know I feel weird and bad about it. I really like the older brother though.. help.
What do I do? I fooled around with two brothers. Help?
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